I usually don't have trouble closing girls but I'm having a dilemma with a HB9 I've been working on for a while now .. A little back story , I've known her for almost a year now but I've never really thought much of her because we both had struggling relationships . Now it's at a point where were both single and there's some major IOIs between us. While she was at my house today it got intense to a point where sex was almost inevitable and she stopped me to tell me she doesnt want to yet because feels like "it would be awkward between us after". I know I wouldn't make it awkward but how would I convince her that everything will be normal with the exception of us fucking . Where do I go from here ? I feel like I need to f-close her because she just one of those girls i HAVE to fuck.. Is it bad to think like that ? What do you guys think? Any advice is appreciated

It's bad to think "Is it bad to think like that?"
Don't second guess your feelings and opinions when it comes to what you want. Just do it.

Think about it like this, there are 8 billion people on this planet because their mom's didn't care that it would change the way their dad's look at them if they had sex together. That's 8 BILLION fucks where a "change in feelings" was not an issue. Who cares about this girl's irrational LMR/ASD belief system. It has no basis or importance.

What you do is tell her she is right. You feel more of a connection with her on a different level, and wouldn't want to muck things up with sexual stuff. All the while you continue to be sexual with her and kiss and rub on her. The whole thing with LMR is just riding through the rough waters and getting to the other side. That's why the best thing to do is not fight it, but rather go with the current until eventually you get to where you need to be.

_________________
“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

PUA Ninja, I think I love you!

Rolling through the rough waters by agreeing with her ASD but still steering the interaction towards sex! Fuckin GOLD!!!!!! I remember reading somewhere that we need to kind of say no in words but yes in actions. If she hears you say no she will still allow the physical stuff to escalate. Do the physical stuff smart and she won't say no for long!!

Cheers fellas

Mixar

_________________
wisdom is knowing what to do next virtue is doing it
Translation - Thought without action is pointless!

next time you hang out just be sure to keep bringing the good times (keep making her laugh, etc.), don't try and talk about how it won't be awkward. You best shot is to just have a good time and hope she finally says "fuck it" and she will.

^^^^ Excellent post. In order bang this girl you must not get mad at her / annoyed / ect. when she stops you. Like he said... AGREE with her... and keep going. But I would also use the FRAME that she is forcing the sex on you, and that YOU ARE REJECTING HER (AKA BEING THE PRIZE, NOT CHASING HER!). Say something like "whoa whoa easy their turbo... lets just keep things at first base.. your moving a little to fast for me" the next time you guys are getting hot and heavy. Pull back... then continue again. You need to DO what SHE DID TO YOU. Push her away a little bit.... and my god will she ever chase you back. Girls want what they cant have... just like YOU WANT WHAT YOU CANT GET FROM HER! read your own words again.... "GOD I HAVE TO BANG THIS GIRL..." -- thats exactly the frame you need to PULL on her. Make her feel like "My God I need this boys cock or else im missing out on something BIG" -- lol no pun intended. But i think u get the point. FLIP THE SCRIPT. And you will have all the sex you want... with all the girls you want.

GL
DUKE