Hi guys,

Recently met this 19 y.o. HB from college at a lecture. During the lecture she was continuously doing her lips and possibly breathing somewhat faster, not sure. She seemed interested in what I had to say on the lecture topic and drove me to my place. The conversation really had a natural flow and vibe, she told me very personal stuff on her medical history and asked if I was single. Once parked at my place we kept the conversation going for 90 min, in which we discussed all sorts of things.
Yesterday we had this SPAM chat on again all sort of stuff / on SPAM there is small teasing.

However she has a BF, but also stated she is not completely happy with this guy because he is WAY passive in life, BUT due to a traumatic accident which temporarily disabled her, in which he sticked to the relationship, she feels obliged to stay in the relationship.

AND...wanting to not scare her i told her it's OK to be friends. Which was probably not a good move, in retrospect. I will see her again soon for a similar lecture.

Can i still escalate and what's the best COA? She is quite an 8 overall.

Thanks,

R.

Hi guys, if for some reason my question is not clear enough please feel free to ask for clarification.