I've been improving my game and confidence speaking with women but over and over I hit a WALL when it comes to closing. Girls flake on dates or don't respond to calls after I really feel like we hit it off. I am at a loss. I know I'm a good looking guy. Im confident in that. I'm starting to think there is some intangible that kills me. Some sort of aura that girls pick up off me and run for the hills. I don't know what it is. I feel like I have some mysterious disease. No matter how well the conversation goes and how good the interaction is, I cannot close a door with girls. Passive aggressive rejection is all I get. I'm lost. I've had enough. I don't know if any sort of advice can help.

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I've been gaming for years, improving myself signficantly and getting results, but I regularly feel like this too. Nothing to worry about bro, it's all part of the pain you must experience to improve... hitting the plateaus and surpassing them.

Girls will flake all the time for various reasons, usually out of your control, but it's best to focus upon what helps you. Refining all areas of your game, both inner and outer, to make more of these numbers solid instead of wishy-washy. You said you "hit it off" with the people you meet, but maybe not to the degree you think.

Maybe you're focusing more on the validation (ie. good responses and getting numbers) rather than what will actually get the results (ie. dates and getting intimate after building attraction). Like Tony said, try to get them more invested (which goes beyond just keeping a conversation going) and focus on being more carefree and less outcome-dependent.

Mission... very possible. Good luck!

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This is so confusing. People make it look so easy. When I'm out I have so much pressure on me because I have to think about every little thing. Lines and routines and pull up natural stuff. There's so much to think about. Being funny and having good conversation seems to mean nothing still. I don't have a clue about how to DHV with what I have. I'd have to lie and lie but that's not what I want to do. I want to be genuine. I approach with good unique openers and conversation and use material I've learned. I don't know how to close. Im just lost on how to actually approach the real goal.

How do I get them invested? I don't know how to begin to comprehend how that happens.

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The "Mission impossible" movie is good Some activities are so dangerous in this movie.

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Dude I totally know what you mean, It's like a learning curve, try to "phase-shift", change your whole perspective out of nowhere and just go in for the close. If you're afraid of doing something ever, that's probably what you need to dive into.

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Mission Impossible: the Game makes a really favorable impression to me with its intriguing quest line made up of agents’ daily duty, but finally lets me down with its click-maniac mechanics that fails to breathe life into the well-knit story.

It just means that you do not have enough value in their eyes. There are a billion guys out there who clean themselves up, go out to bars and clubs, and pretend to be entertaining, then get a girl's number. I would know, I'm one of them!

Either you look like Brad Pitt or you don't. If you look average (like myself and most guys), then nothing sets you apart from the crowd. Women quickly find out that you aren't a millionaire or a rockstar, and there's not much intrigue. Unless you're all up in their shit running intense game on them, they'll lose interest. It's really that simple.

But you can't give up. You have to keep learning from your mistakes and striving to improve. That is the only thing that will eventually get you the results you want.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn