Guys - Turn of the T.V, shut the door, pay attention!!!! The most important part of pick up is the result! Everything else is just a vehicle to get you there. Whever you want a different girl everyday or one special girl for the rest of your life you all spend a lot of time thinking and enjoying the image of the f close whith whomever the girl! They key now is to make sure you BOTH enjoy the sex to make sure its something you build a great reputaion for and get to continue.

We guys have a problem, mainly being that from an evoloutionary perspective the greatest, longest and most satisfying of lovers (from a womans perspective) will not have necessarily been the guys that have survived to pass on their genes in the survival of the fittest! In fact it could be argued that the Alpha wam bam thank you mam guy would be at risk the less time he spent fucking, plus the less time he spent in the act of fucking one mate the more time he had to find and fit in more mates, spread his seed and therefore have the best chances to pass on his genes! In order to come quicker (as we all know) the harder and more frantic the sex. Thus the LARGE majority of us enjoy rougher and faster sex......we just like it to last longer than in days gone bye!

The problem with this is that a women´s sexual genitalia pussy sounds better, prefers sensual love. STOP, we all know that people enjoy a variety of sex in different ways and trust me I have fucked (sex is boring fucking is great) girls that want it rough and hard many times but even they would benifit from you learning this. There are thousands of nerve endings within a womans pussy and by continually pounding them you are killing the sensations and therefore the possible enjoyment and sensations that the woman could be experiancing. You should be more gentle, teasing and therefore more stimulating.

To test this (Got this from styles dvd with Hypnotica and steve p I think) tap two fingers hard and repeteadly for a minute on the inside of your forearm, in contrast stroke and play on the inside of the other arm and notice the huge difference. Now think how many more time sensitive a womans pussy is! Point made if you tried that out!

So slow down!!!!

Some advice on doing this is to get some great music that is both enjoyable for you and her to listen to, I prefer less singing and words but by no means does this affect it. Drop the cheesy shit! It should be soft and of a good tempo. Not fast as you will fuck fast not slow as you will have boring sex. An interesting gentl midway. TRUST ME check out this musik and the original post as it will set you up to do things the right way.

PM88ENG a member of this forum made a post on good music for those sexual escapades and he had it spot on!

Here are some of the great ones from his list that I have tried so far

Feist - Inside and Out
Telepopmusik - Breathe (One of my favourites)
Telepopmusik - Genetic World
Royksopp - In Space
Radiohead - everything in its right place
Gottan project - anything

None of it is cheesy Kci and jojo, blackstreet, old mo town blah blah. Its all funky and upto date. It adds to your value as great music that she has not heard but fits the mood will make her more impressed with you and your character/understanding. You show oyu know what she wants and how to set the mood.


Number 2 BUILD UP SEXUAL TENSION. You should spend at least 10 mins plus building sexual tension......if not the whole day building an electric sexual tension before you TOUCH her flower of love

I will post on this another time or you can pm me for advice

Be gentle boys at least most of the time

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Ink

Remember a ship in the harbour is safe.....but thats not what ships were built for!

good advice

i'm pretty sure I hear the girl screaming more when I got hard though.....but this is best done AFTER slower sex (which in retrospct, she probobly enjoyed more)

right on

I always tease the girls, I always star things really slow and then work my way up and when they're getting really turned on I'll slow it down again. I'll do this about three or four times before I stop teasing her and the end result is much better because you build anticipation and it will make the orgasm much better for her. It works the same way for guys too, try masturbating and stop right before you're about to climax and do it three more times and when you finally do, the result will be much bigger and better

i don't know why i didn't say this before.....I was 'getting it on' (for lack of a better term) with a girl i picked up last week. and our first night together, we didn't have sex.

instead. I teased the f**k out of her for an hour probobly. We never had sex. and she told me she came 6 times. she told me the next morning that she liked that almost better than sex, it was like nothing she'd experienced.

there is a LOT to be said for teasing your woman slowly and gradually


happy teasing