So i met this hb 7 at a party last week and was actually able to get my first number close! We went out a week later, my first in months, and had a great time. I really only thought we'd grab a couple drinks and be with her for maybe an hour, we were talking and next thing i knew 3 hours had gone by along with more drinks, needless to say my funds had diminished greatly. Anyways like i said earlier the date went well, i was negging and teasing her all night and she really seemed to love it. I also tried a little kino escalation, hand on shoulder, touch her hand, ect, but didnt know what else to do. Ended up walking her to her car and kiss closing right before we parted ways. Now we have a 2nd date coming up in a few days.

My question is what can i do to escalate so that i can take her home for a lay and what is the deal with paying? Ive heard and read how you are not supposed to pay but how do i get her to pay??

Go someplace cheap. Tell her you are broke till friday (payday). See if you can get her to pay or at least cover her way. Escalate during the date, build attraction, kino like a mother fucker, stay out late with her, change venue a few times, then invite her back to your place to watch a movie and chill.

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