So I got numbers from girls from all different places and times. Like 2-3 weeks ago I got numbers from some girls and kept in touch not too needy just a text once in awhile and last night I got a couple more..... Did everything I was supposed to...except I didn't have much social proof. Just went out by myself and went to a couple parties. Talked to a bunch of girls, showed confidence, DHV, conversation flowed, didn't act needy, dressed well+took care of myself, found out if they had a bf and they didn't. They showed interest in a sense and I got numbers. Next day text them at 3:00pm with....

Miana- Where you been at stranger?
Jacki-Hey stranger...
Sue- You get home safe? (she drove to her crib at 3 am and dropped me off at car)
Samantha- Im glad I ran into you last night Sam

Not ONE text back..... shit is pissing me the fuck off, its been about an hour and half............................
These girls are not even that hot and I know I'm way better than they'll ever get. I just don't get it.. I'm just trying to bring it to that next level with me chillen with them and its bagged no problem from there...

its just an hour and a half, Some ppl text hours later and continue the conversation there.

Theres no reason to get pissed off.

and if they dont reply ever again, then its their loss but dont ever be angry because of that.

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Yah true. Its their problem not mine. I'm better off not knowing them. If they do hmu to do chill with them or say nothing about it (act like it never happened) or call it out directly?

I'm new to this myself, but I wouldn't bring it up. Bothering to text you back in itself shows that they probably still hold some interest, provided they liked you enough to remember who you are (if they apologize too it's an even bigger reassurance). Bringing it up would seem too needy.

If you really are better than they will ever get why the fuck are you even after them??? Seems like someone is just bitter. In which case, you don't really deserve a response IMO.

That being said, an hour and a half... So what's the big deal?! It's not like girls do things other than sit about waiting desperately for you to txt them... Get a grip

Yo dog, I don't need your attitude at this point. Theres a lot of things going in my life that I don't have time to waste. I'm running against a clock right now and each minute is ticking away. Your telling me girls don't have their phones on them all the time?? Come on man be a bit smarter. I figured it had something to do with my response or with them mainly them...

Nah you're just being sensitive and overreacting. Don't bring it up to any of them when you speak to them next either.

Howdy mate. i don;t realy have any great suggestions for you but I just wanted to tell you that what you mentioned is more common than you may think. One of my friends who girls always say he is hot and has no trouble with women has the same thing happen to him therefore it crosses all class / status levels and should not be seen as a bad refelction on yourself.

Theirs not one reason as to why females do not reply or lose interest but the most common reasons include

- emotional shift - that yes at the time they may of genuinly had a great time with you and enjoyed talking to you and had no trouble giving you their number however days later when they are back into the swing of every day life and its stresses they have different priorities and what happened a few days ago may seem like a eternity ago to them, therefore changing the way they feel.

- perhaps they have a b/f or found other males who they are attracted to. This one can be hard to accept but just like anything in life there are times when you will come out 2nd best and coming off 2nd best to a female that you just met is not realy something to lose any sleep over if this is the reason for the non reply.

- Another one that is hard to accept for guys is that females give their number just so that guys will not bug them however they were not that interested to begin with. Its pretty easy to tell when a female is interested or not so you should be able to work out which females fall into this category. Be carefull not to I put all non interactions into this categories.

At the end of the day females are strange characters and sometimes .. well most times you will never know as to why non interactions happen even after you think you are on a winner.

What I would suggest - dont worry about it and get as many numbers as you possibly can - keeping in mind that getting a girls number doesn't mean a thing and you can do it all the time. It is a numbers game - the more numbers you have the more you get to suceed. i.e. theirs a certain percentage that won;t respond, theirs some that will respond for a limited time theirs some that will respond and keep responding but when you ask them out they make excuses and theirs the ones that will accept your offer to see them again. The more numbers you have the more opportunity you have to get to the last scenario.

Where to from here with these girls - i'm no expert but this is the way I would play it. If you like them that much then leave them alone for a day or two and message them again but don;t bring up that you already messaged them and if they do respond don't ask them if they received your first message - you don;t want to seem upset about it.

Give them some space, try again if you wish and whilst doing that get some more numbers and keep the ball rolling, keeping in mind that even the best pick up artists get non replies even for example Paul jenka but what makes these guys different is that they don;t give up. As hard as it may sound dont take it personaly I've had these things happen to me many a time and so has every guy.

I hope this assists and feedback to this post is welcome.

Shooting a girl a text is one of the worst ways to initiate contact. Approaching in person is the best. Then calling her on the phone. Texting being a distant third.

It's like getting discouraged that none of your three point shots are going in, when you know full well that free throws and layups are much easier to make.

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But in this scenario where he has already sent them texts if they don;t respond I don't think he should go to the phone call as it will make him look like he is desperately trying to make contact with them. If he was to call perhaps us ethe private number so they don;t see it and then he can roll the dice and see how he goes

@PuaNinja There's some truth to what you're saying, but texting IS a good bridge between the initial interaction and when you call her. But you are right that you should get them on the phone ASAP and most guys waste WAY too much time texting when they need to call the girl and set up a date.

@DaveBlaze, don't get mad at that other dude. He was actually correct in what he said and you should take his advice. The fact of the matter is that getting irritated about the situation doesn't help at all. He is right that an hour and a half is nothing, so give them a little more time. Sometimes people can't text while they're at work or whatever the reason might be. BUT, if you don't get any responses it most likely has to do with something you either did or didn't do in the initial interaction. AND the fact that the texts you sent were kind of weak doesn't help either. So my point is 1. You need better texts to send girls BUT 2.(I know you think you did really well in the initial interaction and maybe you did, I don't know) but if you did do really well in the initial interaction than it doesn't matter as much if you send weak texts. They'll usually respond anyway because they like you.

Better texts to send girls:

"Hey Jessica, make or break question: s'mores or cheez-its?"
"ATTENTION: Jessica. This is a VIP number store with care - Dave "

I personally like the first one a lot. I use it ALL the time (or some variation of it) because its really easy to role play off of it. "Ugghh you like s'mores? We're totally gonna have to get divorced. You keep the kids, I'm taking the dog and the yacht."

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shit happens to me all the time.... I usually just say fuck you. if they take 4 hours to reply i take 7. It hasn't ever really taken me anywhere to be honest, but I just entertain myself. When I kind of see that the conversation is not going anywhere because she's not really showing any interest I usually use them to test new lines... hoping to get back a reaction .

hey well this reply is like 15 days late but... i just wanted to say not to worry about it. i have a really good friend who i talk to whenever i am bored by messaging. sometimes she initiates the convo and sometimes its me but there have been times when all of a sudden she would just stop replying all of a sudden in the middle of the convo. it's mostly because she gets really busy doing something at the house or outside. the first time it happened i was a bit pissed but u know what she's a good friend and i know that she wouldnt be playing any games with me bcuz we have alrdy been open about our intentions for each other.
if someone doesnt reply its not always because they dont like u. maybe they just had a bad day or something and dont wanna sound like a loser in front of u because they think they mite lose u, or they r just busy, OR they dont like u but who gives a fuck.... you shouldnt be in the game to just get girls it should be a means for improving yourself and increasing your inner game and confidence that would help you in all aspects of your life. i would suggest u think of girls in this way... they r your test dummies to make a better you. learn from every mistake AND your success. no matter how well u get there will always be 1 or 2 out of the 50 girls that you will miss out.
also you said that u r not even attracted to them that much and u r better than them..
however you care so much about their response, which means that you rely on their reply to prove this. you still look for external approval, which is not the way to be. if you truly want to be good with people in general then forget about what other people think, dont be the guy who says it outloud to everyone oh i dont give a fuck i dont give a fuck, and then goes home and cries about oh this guy said this and this girl rejected me. but rather be a guy who is so involved in his own life that everyone is an option for you, u need to be completely happy with yourself and who u are that if someone says shit to u, u just walk it off cuz you know its not who u r and if they talk shit about u they r jealous that u can do what you do like approach strangers. not every girl u talk to at a party or mall will actually become a part of your life but hey at least u know 4 more ppl now that if u see on the street u can talk to. life changes all the time, you'l never know who you'l meet again and what point in their or your life.

if all that doesnt make sense to you the whole point of that is that you really should believe that you dont care, because if u honestly didnt care than u wouldnt be on the forums saying what should i do she's not responding you gotta focus on your inner game while you practice your outer game. and there's more than one reason for her not texting you other than her not liking u. like honestly do u get just as emotiional if a guy doesnt reply to your text

That is a very good and empowering post that I agreed with everything you said. Good work.

Thanks for all the replies. At the time I was dealing with a lot of stress and I thought that by going out and talking to women I would have a way better time (seeking approval). In some ways it did and in others it didn't. I've been learning to not be so negative and act like it's all my fault because theres a lot that can be happening on the other-side. When you come out of a bad relationship and girls that you talk to aren't acting cool, you become bitter. I couldn't help but think that my ex is cherry picking and not worrying about a thing, while I'm putting myself out there at risk for disappointment. Luckily things have somehow fallen into place by chance and I'm talking to three girls right now that are definitely interested and have chilled with me. It could be a lot worse and not have any right?

P.S none of the girls that are interested are the ones mentioned above. I had to cut them off since there was no point and I tried to re-initiate after a good freeze-out period. No luck