| Day 1, Day 2, Day 3....the amount of encounters doesn't really matter. It's all about the process and how you implement it. To me, D2 is past the initial stages of the game (opening, comfort, rapport, attraction), and it's all about seduction. If she's not ready for seduction yet, then by all means, revert back to the previous phases and continue building attraction.
But D2 is usually when you should be going for a strong kiss close or the f-close. So you should be focusing primarily on seduction. Small talk for the sake of small talk is no good here. Telling your life stories to "get to know one another" is only good if you think it establishes a closer connection with her. If you get to comfortable you'll forget the game, assume you can close at any time, and she'll become more distant before you are able to reel her back in.
Your D2 may start innocently enough, but make sure it has a seductive finish. Meaning you need to set it up so that you end up in a dark movie theatre, or end up having several drinks with her late at night. Then obviously once you've re-established comfort/rapport/attraction, you start laying on the seduction stuff hard and heavy. Start kino'ing her and saying things like "Wow, this is weird, I really feel like we have a connection." or "I dunno, I just feel really good being close to you."
Sounds gay, but the shit works. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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