Guys,

The clue is in the thread title! Met a hot girl on a dating site. We've not actually met yet, but we're gonna have drinks at my place tomorrow night, then hit the bars afterwards. The thing is, she wants her (also hot) girl friend to join us, as they were apparently supposed to hang out tomorrow night!

Is this a good/bad idea? Or neither?

Any tips or advice on how to play this? Or should I just try & dissuade her from bringing her buddy?

Cheers fellas!

I don't think they planned to hang out, I think the girl asked her friend to come with. The friend is a safety measure for when you turn about to be creepy or boring. I think it's highly unlikely that you can dissuade her from taking her friend. Instead, invite one or more friends over yourself, make it an impromptu party.

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Thanks for replying.

I debated doing as you suggested, but most of my buddies are unavailable this weekend! I'm thinking I can just try & game both of them myself! Greedy better than needy!

However, if I DO decide to invite some friends, should I go with guys only, or would inviting girls be a good idea too?

Thoughts?

Cheers!

The friend is there for security. End of. Be cool with it, if you say no it makes you sound like you might actually be a murderer or something!

I would consider asking if its ok for you to bring a friend? Make a quip saying your tired of girls hitting on you constantly and fighting of two girls at once gets tiresome then to really through a spanning in the works have a female friend come, but don't tell them before.. And have her big you up go out, entertain them all. Win the friend over, escalate with target.

But yeah, it's understandable for her to want to bring a friend if you met online. Good luck and close that ass

Bring one of your friends to put less pressure on yourself (if you're nervous about the situation) and make it easier to escalate on your target.