Hi guys.
First of all, let me tell you that I am fairly new in gaming and to this site, but have been reading for some time here, and allready learned a lot. Thank you for that.
So got this problem.
I k-closed a HB 9 at some club this Saturday. We were both pretty drunk, and when I texted here yesterday, she said she didn't remember much. I tried to set a date quick, but she hesitated a bit saying she just came out of a long relationship (can tell by her facebook that this is true).
She then asked me to send a picture of me, since her memory was a bit blurry. So I did this morning (about 10 am Scandinavian time) and she still haven't responted to that (know 10:30 pm)
A suspect she is kinda superficial, and allthough I think I'm an okay looking guy, she might think that I'm not good looking enough!
So should I keep waiting for her to response? Or how to react to this?
I realise that I maybe shouldn't have sent a pic, and instead maybe throw her a neg about being superficial and not spontanious or something - but I felt there was now way around sending a pic and now it is done!
I don't want to change the frame, from me being confident to suddenly having the underhand beeing judged on my look. (already kind of did I realise so how to turn around again?)
lastly: If she replies before I sent her a new text in a day or two, and she turns me down based on my looks, then what to reply to that?
Here is our text dialog from yesterday: (I know my text game propably suck)
Me: Hi xxx Nice to meet you yesterday. I guess we both were a bit drunk, so I think it would be appropiate to meet up again some time. Maybe with less alcohol included;)
Her: Yes, it was really nice, and yes I think a had a bit too much;) Yes, maybe we could arrange to meet some time. Are you on Facebook?
Me: Haha, I think maybe we had a tacitly competition on who could get the most drunk... You won that one;p I'm pretty busy next week, but how about finding some time the week after, and meet up for a drink?
Yes, I'm on facebook...
Her: What's your name ón facebook? Yes, we could arrange that:)
Me: My name is xxx, but don't go stalking me all night now;) Sounds great, maybe Friday next week?
Her: Haha, don't worry I won't:)
Can we wait a little, just came out of a long relationship and don't know if I am ready to see someone right now.
Me: wow, didn't think that long ahead, it's just that I'm busy next week so thought it we be nice for my planning to arrange it now - bur off course we can wait:)
and afterall, I didn't ask you to be my girlfriend, just to grab a drink with me some time:) thought it could be nice to meet up again:)
Her: haha, that's true, just thought you should know. In real life, when not that drunk I'm actually much more charming;)
Me: Well, looking forward to see that charming site of you then;)
Bla Bla Bla.
The last couple of texts:
Her: I've add'et you on facebook.
Me: Ok. I will accept, but my guess is that you will stalk my picture and then you will be disapointed 'couse I don't have any pics on FB.
Her: Oh, why don't you. Then you gotta sent me one:)
Me: Okay, I will on of these days;)
Her: Or you could do it right now?
Me: Being eager now, huh?;) I'm not at home right now, but I will sent you one, Miss Desperado;)
Her: Haha, that's the last thing I am. But I actually was thinking it too, when I read my own text:) haha, but that is just fine.
So. This morning I sent a pic. And still no response!
Gotta say that she is 30 years old, so she should be old enough to turn a guy down politely instead of don't answer..! i think it's a bit strange!?
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