hey guys,

I was texting this girl but the texting game of mine got kinda shi**y and even though she answered to my texts I stopped texting her so I could get my game together and I was also ending a bad relationship I was in and now it's been about 10 days that I haven't seen and texted the HB. Anyway, can you guys suggest me a good opener after so many days of silence. I'm a guy and I really hate that "hey, what's up"? I need a funny and good opener after so many days of silence. Also can you guys advice me how to get this girl on a date or see/hang out with her? I asked her out for dinner but she said that she had already had dinner and I know i effed up with that because it was too early to ask her out but anyway I am confused when it comes to this date thing because many PUA would argue that if you separate the girl from the group or go out with her only (without her social circle) you pretty much got that girl, but some other PUA would argue that you need to be spontaneous about the first date like maybe hang out with her/your social circle and at the same time build comfort with her? When I told her that I usually go clubbing in the weekends she told me that she loves clubbing and would go there but she didn't want to go out with me for dinner (?)...

So suggest me for a good text opener and a good idea/plan to set up a date with this girl without coming as "aggressive or needy"? I think she is shy and needs to know me better before going to a date but the thing is that I don't know see this girl often and texting and Facebook is the only way to build comfort between us... I already got refused once, and if she says no to a second date I'm moving on, so I need to set up a good date so I can make a final decision...