Met this HB9 after a show I played back in August. She opened me and asked if I was classically trained. I knew she was interested at that point, but she was with a guy. So I didn't bite. She added me on FB and then I knew I had to act. So I got her number, even though she said she has a bf (I said, well, we can just get a drink). We went on 3 dates, I k-closed her on the third at my place, but it was like 3 pm. I should've gone further, I shouldn't have waited that long, but, the timing just didn't seem right. The mood wasn't set well enough. Also since she had a boyfriend (or, as she put it, "seeing someone"), I didn't want to push it too hard.

I then went on a week long tour in Texas. She texted me and we talked for a bit there. I played it pretty cool, didn't text too much or get needy. When I came back to LA, we had plans, but she flaked. She didn't make other plans so I froze her out and eventually moved on. That was about 7 weeks ago.

I reopened her yesterday, just for the hell of it, on FB with the lemonade/coke "get her heart racing" message, she laughed, we had a nice talk, and we're going to hang out on Monday.

This girl is cool. I'm not SUPER concerned or attached with the outcome, HOWEVER, I do want to give it my best shot for hooking her and f-closing her and having her stick around for a bit. She's super into music, loves coming to shows, and I just think that would be a cool thing to have for a while.

Advice?

I think she's definitely interested, or at least open to being interested. Why else would she agree to go out with a guy she had been on dates with.

Disregard the "seeing someone" bit, she's already kissed you so you know she's DTF.

When a girl shows interest in something you do, PLAY THAT SHIT UP! As an artist I know this all too well. I've had girls tell me how hot they think being an artist is...on our very first encounter! That's an instant IOI. Music is the exact same thing. What they want to know is that you are passionate about it and they want to see how good you are at it. You don't have to be Mozart or Picasso, but you need to demonstrate your abilities too them. If you are even remotely adept at it they will be impressed, trust me.

I'd get her back to your place and play your instrument for her and maybe have her try it. Really try to impress her here. Talk about what inspires you to play music, what you love about it, what you ultimately wish to do with it. Be idealistic and grandiose. This chick will be sitting there in awe of you as her desire to fuck your brains out continues to build.

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This girl is definitely fuckable.

When you meet her, give her a kiss on the cheeks, it establishes a tone for a fun and flirty (penetration) filled night.

Do whatever after, but make sure you are the social leader.

It doesn't matter where you fuck. Sex isn't about fucking candles and dim lights. I'll fuck girls in a car, bathroom, etc. They just want the dick.

It'll be easier to get her to your place, for a "Movie". So make out with her on the couch or something. Push her onto the ground in a playful way. Then whip out your cock while she's on the ground and you're on the couch. Stand up and stare into her eyes.

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I swear you guys are the best. Awesome advice.

Here's the thing. I can't get her to my place, because we're meeting in SM --- that's where she lives, and I'll be just getting done a rehearsal around there. She has a client til 9 and I have rehearsal around SM til 8:30 so it worked out that way. But it's VERY unlikely she comes back to my place as it's probably 45-50 minutes away at that time of night. I wanted to make it as easy as possible for her NOT to flake as a 45 minute drive is a pretty big hoop to jump through for an HB9 who I haven't talked to in over a month.

Any ideas on how to get her to invite me over to her place? I think that'll be my only option to fuck her that night or else I'll just have to talk her into coming to Glendale the next time we meet. I still plan on escalating as much as possible but I want to go the full way as soon as possible because I don't know if I'll get another chance if I don't close soon.

What are you guys doing for your little date?

Try maybe bringing some wine or beer, leave it in your car, and after your date say "Hey I have some drinks, after party at your place."

or just make up ANY excuse to go inside. I remember I wanted to fuck this mormon girl and we were just sitting in my car, and I was like "lets go inside, and you can show me some bible verses that explains your religion."

we got inside her home, and didn't do any of that, we only made out. Then she never talked to me again because I was being a perverted creep controlled by lust and satan, as she quoted. LOL

If you can't get inside her home, fuck her in your car.

Hey, VP I'm sending you a PM.

Basically my plan for tonight is to leave rehearsal, go get a margarita somewhere, and she's going to join me. When she comes in I give her a super alpha hug and kiss her on both cheeks, escalate physically... tell her how passionate I've been lately about stuff, show her this recording of something I did in a studio session yesterday, and stay there for about an hour (or shorter if I feel like conversation isn't flowing) then ask her "do you live close by?" and try to talk my way into going to her place. I was thinking saying something like "well you've seen my place, now I gota see yours, it's only fair." with a playful but firm attitude. If she says no, I'm not sure what to do at that point---pushing it might fuck things up, but so can "playing the nice guy" and giving into her resistance.

FWIW, I think the reason she fell off the planet for 6 weeks is because I didn't escalate quickly enough and she got frustrated. I had her at my place and everything. Fucked up, but lesson learned. I have another chance now, I'm thinking that's exactly what I should do.

Let me know what you think.

Yeah that sounds good, you don't even need to be out long.

What I would do is meet her up, be super physical, and talk banter bullshit that'll make her laugh.

Makeout with her when you two are vibing well. Get her horny, and while you're making out, groping her, fingering her w/e, be like "ok lets go back to your place." She will most likely agree.

If she doesn't agree, plow through her resistance, or just pull her into your car and continue making out, and rip off her panties.