Hey guys, help me with this!
I met a girl the other day and we talked and bla bla bla... so i kissed her in a part and the next week we hang out and kissed again and everything was so nice and fun!
I drove her home and we were holding hands til i drop her hand in my leg and she left it there all the way.
The next day (my birthday), she didnt called me but i called her to say that was very fun and i enjoyed and we should do that again, she agreed with that but we didnt set up a date.

The thing is that is acting weird with me, she isn't answering my phone messages with the same parttern (no smiles, no emoticons, no IOI)....
I asked her out twice (ok, it was in a wednesday and in colleged) she refused and said: "I cant, i have so many things to do 4 my final paperwork, let postpone till i finish it!!" (she talked to the teacher and he said she needed to redo a lot of stuff)...

But when I saw her I i could use lot of kino, hugs, kiss in chicks, talked a lot, she introduced to her friends.

this weekeng she cane talking to me asking 4 smth to her paperwork, and nothing more. I asked if she was going to a party yhe next friday and she didn't know...

This friday i met her in this party, but I was so sad about it and with no self esteem or raport i couldn't flirt with her so well, so i couldnt kiss her.... Thinking after the party, I guess i could kiss her if i was a little more confident, as she left her friends to talk to me, we where huging and so on...

The thing is I'm not confident to send her a text message, I have no ideas what send to her and I cant be rejected again...

I'm wondering where did I screwed things up, as she seemed so interested and now she seems not interested.... I cant see her in college since our schedules are very different, so if i want to see her i need to hang out with her..

No one is going to figure out where you screwed up, so asking that is a waste of time other than to say if she actually was attracted to you at one time, she isn't now. My only observation is you need to move faster to escalate romantically and spend less time in friendly guy mode. This is a normal problem for new guys due to lack of confidence in escalating.

So how can I escalete her from now on? I barely see her! I have to do all by text messages and try to get a date with her...

sending a large amount of text messages , being her phone or email or facebook amigo, meeting up with her to exchange papers or watching CSI Miami why you talk about rugby is taking you further from any romantic interest she may have had at one time.

Sorry i didnt understand that....