Hey guys, This is my first post.. I was out about three weeks ago in Ct and I met this incredible girl.. Not the hottest in the club but every guy wanted her as she was cool as sh** and cute. We ended up hanging out the entire night, I played it cool, didn't have to do any negging but didn't give her too much attention and she was into me hard. I decided not to kiss her and save it for another time believing this girl might be gf material. Anyways, we exchanged numbers, (she called me to make sure I had the # right that night) and I sent her two texts over the next few days and she never got back to me until this weekend (3 weeks later). Not wanting to seem eager I don't return her text until the next day with a simple (Hey, how's it going? –boring I know but trying to be nonchalant) But she hasn't gotten back to me yet? This girl was really into me at the club, so I was surprised she didn't get back to me at first n that she's going so slow? How should I play this going forward?

Hmm...sounds like you got yourself quite the dilemna.

I'm new to the pick-up artistry as well...but I might be able to make a suggestion

what you want to do is...wait another couple of days...and then text back saying something that will literally force her to have to reply or at least consider it...for example...you might want to say "Hey, I just saw your twin today, she looked exactly like you except her hair was fake "...something funny, not necessarily what I said though. You may also want to try refering back to the night you two met. Recall something about her that you might be able to make fun of her about. For instance, if she drank a lot that night, you might want to say..."Hello binge drinker. What's up?". this is all based on advice I read somewhere...however I must say...if you've messaged her constantly and displayed any sort of neediness...you should quite possibly cut her off as a potential and move on to other women...a true pick up artist never dwells on one girl and has the ability to move on, stay confident and pick up more women....after all, practice makes perfect


-Elijah

this is not an uncommon behavior among club women. I think when she called you that night, had you called or texted back right then, she would have been down for snl. The trick to that is, don't show too much excitement about her first call. Take it like, "whats up, I got your number, cool" whatever. As you get better at phone game it gets easier.

A lot of club women can detect fear or apprehension in men. Not going for the kiss was ok but not if you spent the entire night focused on her. I'm just going on a limb here and assuming she was probably the one that opened you first. Even if not, with these types of women, if you aren't quick to take the bait, they move on fast. She's probably since done a couple other guys the same way she did you or hooked up with an ex for a while and now shes responding to your texts again. she may think your number is someone else. 3 weeks is long to put a person off so I don't think she's correlating your club interaction to now the same way you are.

also I don't know what your texts said so if she didn't like the texts, she may have ignored you