Went out with a cute Asian cross-fit trainer last night that I met off POF. We had a great time, but she was got weird whenever I tried to kiss her. So far I've been getting intense interest from her, constant texting, compliments on my looks, etc...

So we go out last night, hit 3 different bars, have a great time. She even pulls out her card and pays for the first round of drinks before I can, which I REALLY liked b/c most girls I've met don't even bother to try to pay or even say 'thank you.' We have great conversation and she laughs a lot at my stupid jokes. The first time we changed bars I took her hand out of her jacket pocket to hold it and she held on as well (as opposed to that limp fish grip girls will give you if they don't want to).

We hung out for about 3 hours and I tried to kiss her 2 or 3 separate times... each time I got the same response... she sort of turned away and laughed nervously and said something along the lines that "she can't do it because now she's expecting it" (whatever the fuck that means) or that it's "too romantic"... This is literally all I said before I went in for each kiss...

#1: Hey, I want to see something
#2: You know what would be ironic? (because we were right in front of a gay club)
#3: So would it be "too Hollywood" to kiss you at your car? (not really expecting a kiss, at this point just busting on her)

Each time she denied it I just laughed it off like it was nothing and made a joke.

So at the end of the date we hugged (ugh). She got in her car and told me she didn't want me to think she didn't have fun just because she didn't kiss me. At this point I'm thoroughly confused and frustrated, but when I got home i just texted her "Hey had fun tonight" as I would any girl. She responded "Me too!"

Planning on going ahead with it as i would with any girl, but her issues with when I tried to kiss her are really confusing me. Any insight to this would be greatly appreciated.

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Dude... girls HATE awkward moments. You have to literally just DO IT. Make it natural tho.. You have to kino escalate your way to kissing her. Good that you kept going for it. Shows persistence. She is not comfortable with you kissing her because she is not comfortable with your touch yet. Start touching her and your problem is solved brotha. It will happen.

Kino is the crux of the game, but i may have backslid on it a little that night. Texted her today, got no response. Gonna freeze out for a few days, text her again. If I still get dead air, I'm nexting her. Tired of these games.

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Yep I agree you probably escalated without building up enough kino from the start.

I usually treat my day 2's like my girlfriend right off the bat, hug straight away, kiss both cheeks, or a quick lip kiss if she looks happy to see me, "you smell nice", grab her hand and take her to wherever you're going. This cuts out all the unnecessary awkwardness, of "Hi, how are you?" and awkwardly trying to escalate gradually.

crux of my game*

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Texted her "Hey dork, still alive?" today. Got a response soon after. Her nursing exams are coming up. Guess she's just super busy with studying. Thanks for the responses, guys.

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