I met a girl on okcupid, she was real direct real quick. She initiated.

Her: Truth or dare?

Me: Haha, how about both?

Her: Hmm now that sounds like fun

Okay truth: whats your fav.sex position?

Dare: I dare you to touch yourself. (lame I know but its all I got, when not in person haha).



From there I told her I like 69 and she said her favorite thing is sucking dick. She said she masturbated to me. We decided to meet up within about 12 hours of first talking.

She came over, we had small talk, I made excuses for kino, to touch her hair, her hands, played drums on her belly, tickled her, it seemed we were getting physically comfortable. I told her I'd give her a massage, as I massaged she said "I know where massages lead." and stated she wasn't sure she wanted to go there. She wasn't letting my touching progress to anything sexual so I utilized FREEZE-OUT. I stopped touching her and ran errands on my phone, doing emails. It didn't work though. Over an hour went by and she didn't try to touch me, she just watched the movie.

Eventually she questioned my sexual orientation, I said I'd prove I'm straight. She was laying prone, so I sat on top of her and got a boner as I massaged her, then started dry humping her. She said I was getting myself worked up for nothing and she wasn't going to do anything.

This is when she told me she never masturbates (so she lied in text) and that she doesn't care for sex. I brought up what she said in text. She assured she wasn't lying in text, and that she does like giving oral. I suggested I'm ready for it. But she declined, saying "I like leaving men frustrated". "Why" I asked. "It makes it funner" she replied.

It didn't make it funner to me, it made me so damn frustrated and stressed. I drove her back to her car right after she said that. I immediately went inside and punched holes in my wall until my hands bled, smashed a bunch of stuff in my room, then I just cried for a good while.

Why would a girl act all horny then decline a guy like that? Especially one she barely knows, another guy might've very well PHYSICALLY raped her for that.

Should have pulled your dick out. If she didn't suck it on the spot then tell that bitch get the stepping. Real talk.

^ This definitely seems appropriate considering how she initiated and began teasing you. Seems like she wanted an adventurous person that put her in her place. Some girls are into that shit. Thanks for the report, I definitely learned something here (in case something like this ever happens)

Well this is her, let me know if any of you have better success with her. Btw, she looks much better in person than in this pic. Her hair is blonde now and she has huge boobs.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Littlefr ... f=visitors

Woow, so much to say! She was obviously playing games with you for her own amusement. Girls like these mislead you, break outta character, then feeds on your sexual fustration. Hindsight is 20/20, but after she wouldn't respond to the kino like you thought, freezing out was the best thing to do, but she reeled you back in. SHE is suppose to come back to you, not the other way around. Don't fall for these traps! You've gotta recognise these problems and deal with them appropriately