Met this girl about 6 months ago, hb9 I'd say. She was dating this good for nothing mooch guy I toke up with sometimes. I'm 28 she's 20 soon to be 21. I ain't stupid, not lookin for love.. Jus advancement to the pants and maybe a few months of puppy love y'know. Not oneitus, I got like 5 or 6 girls I actively talk to and hang out with from time to time. So anyway, good for nothing retard guy fucked up like he always does and cheated on her with some nasty hog and got her preggo. Needless to say they broke up a few weeks ago. I hit her up asking for advice on shoes and kinda got a short conversation rolling, we ended up hangin out, now she slept over the past 4 nights in a row.. So obviously she likes me, plus she's straight up said it so I get that. She says she jus wants to take things slow and see what happens.. which Im definitely cool with. Thing is.. We haven't fucked yet. She got her wisdom teeth pulled the 1st day she came over. Her face is pretty swollen still to this day, I know she's pretty jacked up and in a lot of pain (infected gums from the extractions) so I'm not makin any assumptions quite yet. Her face is startin to heal now, so time will tell. There's been a lot of kino, she's pretty much cuddled up on me the whole time she's over, wants to be held tight and spooned, holding hands while in bed.. and there's been some short tiny kisses that I can let fly cuz of her mouf pain.

She also tells me "she likes to make guys wait". She don't seem easy, and I been told she ain't at all by people that know her well. She seems pretty mature for her age but c'mon.. She not even 21 yet. My question is.. Since its been 4 nights w/o a lay, should I react in a subtle fashion (how so?) or should I keep playin cool and give her a few more nights to heal and see what happens?

Pretty much what I been doin btw.. Jus showing her that I enjoy the company and having a good time with her. Makin her laugh, neggin with good intentions, being sweet a bit, all that jazz. If anyone has any answers or threads/info to point me in a direction I'd appreciate it.

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Also, there's been some grinding of the pelvic region, some teasing of sorts while in bed. We've also been able to talk about sex pretty freely (ex. nipples, vaginas, kisses on the stomach by the pants line..). I think it's gonna be a go.. She jus probably takes a little effort . What do you guys think?