So.. heres the story

i went to a festival and i caught the last bus home, on the bus was one of my old school friends who sat next to the HB. I engaged conversation with my friend and asked what they both got up to during the evening, the HB tells me she has just finished work, i asked her what she did - blah blah. we then spoke about going on holiday, i asked her where she was going and if she was going with friends, she said she was annoyed that she hasn't had her "girly holiday".

I left the bus but felt annoyed i didn't get her name or number...but i bumped into the same friend and asked for the name, i tracked her on facebook and opened her with

"Hey we met on the bus..you were sat next to *friends name*...don't worry, I'm not a stalker Razz x"

we spoke for a while then got her number, i text her saying "guess who? Wink and spoke about going to austrailia and asked her what she'd do if she got chased by a shark.. she said she'd panic like hell but the life guard will save her and i said sounds to me like you need a hero in your life (probably bad idea)...

i bumped into her again on the bus, we spoke but she was sat next to her grandma and felt like i had to behave in a way, we spoke about what she did, where shes looking for work, i gave her some advice on what to do...Then after i got off the bus i text her to and asked if her tan was real or fake (shes recently come off holiday) she gave me a bit of a telling off, so i said it looks nice and that we should make our meetings more regular..she said she'll see, so i said "I wont be on the bus every hour or day of the week Razz" - no reply.
later on that night i text her saying that "its cold tonight, do you need somebody to keep you warm?" and she said "im actually pretty hot tonight. thanks for the offer though Wink haaa." so i text back saying "who said i was offering? Wink"

From what i know about this girl shes quite out going, likes to have fun, career driven and she strives...also quite well behaved

Thats basically it...judging from this would you say im getting somewhere slowly? or am i screwing it up?

From what i know about this girl shes quite out going, likes to have fun, career driven and she strives...also quite well behaved
Any advice would be great..thanks!

Casonova

You've already lost. You are being AFC to her in practicly every way possible, man. You're already offering yourself up to her, you didn't NC on first contact, u just added her on facebook without asking her (worst way to get a girls contact info). You are not using any of the basic PUA methods. I'm 100% sure you havn't been touching her regularly, no DHV's, you're just submitting yourself to her judgement by asking stuff like "Do you need somebody to keep you warm?".

What i would do next would be to cut contact now, forget about her, work on your INNER game(THEN focus on girls), and start learning the basics of PUA.


Good luck.