I met a HB8.5 at a bus stop. The buses where no longer avalable and I took her back to her place,without doing anything than chatting. I felt a lot of chemistry between us and the fact that she asked first my number was encouraging. I managed to build rapport and was quite sure that i had great chances with her.

I texted her after a couple of days to meet up and she said she couldnt make it,cause she went swimming. After 3 days i text her again and got no response. Waited around 30 hours and sent her another sms, this time HUGE, but had all the right ingredients to rebuild attraction. After some minutes she answers back saying she was at her parents house and had no signal and that she would arrange a date when she would came back. I can sense flaky girls, so gave up texting her. Ofcourse she never texted back.

After more than 1.5 month, August 15th (which in greece is her name day) I wished her well and said I hoped this was the most unexpected message she received that day. After exactly two texts she invited me at her place. So I went there,grabbed two chairs and went on the roof of her building. She told me the reason she couldnt see me before was she had a boyfriend. And yeah,she was still with him,only he was on holiday.

I played my cards right and it only took 40 minutes to fuck her in every imaginable position on that roof. Afterwards we went at her place and continued fucking with her dog checking out on us. We slept together and when we woke up had a coffee and she walked with me back to my appartment. So i kiss her for goodbuy and say I'd like to see her the same day.

So I called her that evening and arranged to meet at my place after 3 days or so. She agreed,but when the time arrived she found a ridiculous excuse to cancel at the last minute. Same shit,different myth the day after. I keeped my cool and told her that if she does this next time I'll never talk to her again(not in a serious manner). She tried to convince me that she was thinking of me all day long and that she had to see me the next day no matter what.

Problem was, I was leaving town for two days to fuck another girl and I couldn't see her.The same day I got back she phoned me and asked me if I went there for such a reason. I answered yes(cause I was caught offguard and wasn't in the mood to lie). According to her words that made her sad. I said that we had nothing serious yet, so that shouldn't affect her in any way.She replies with a sms saying that this is a very stressful period of her life and that she has to focus on her exams,cause she only has 5 courses to finish her studies, so we better take it slow.

Since then we have talked many hours on the phone and only meet one other time (20 days period). She flaked on me another 4 times! The most recent one was at her own appartment(I'm pretty sure she was inside and didn't open). I told her that if she doesnt respect my time it means she doesnt respect me as a person and never talked with her again. She tried to apologise and told me that she broke up.

It's been 3 days without communication and I don't know how to turn this in my favour.I know I shouldn't deal with this kind of persons,but it's a matter of self respect and so much time and thinking invested to no avail...

Playa is getting played! I believe the answer to your question is in your original post

I know giving up is the smart move here.But let's see it as a game I have to win.For this to happen i need to nail her again(even attempting an ASS-CLOSE) or taking revenge somehow.After all,if I quit she gained confidence & reassurence,while I lost time and had my ego bleeding...I can't live with a crushed ego and the illusion its gonna be revived...

your taking it to heart too much and the more you annoy her with invites out the more she is going to lose attraction.. lay off her for a while..
do you have her on facebook? if yes go out party hard get other girls writing on your wall and trust me it won't be long before she messages you and you can start building again but right now any contact you make is doing more damage than good.. trust me i have lost alot of girls through over contact