Quick recap: I went to a bar this past weekend and saw a girl (HB9) dancing by herself on the dance floor. The dance floor was completely empty; I went up to her and started dancing with her. We hit it off right away. By the end of the night, I kiss closed, and she was asking me if we were gonna exchanged numbers. Therefore, I number closed as well. I am usually really good at getting this far, but I am a little weak at the follow-up. Any suggestions? PS we live about an hour away from each other. I do not want to date her; just trying to hook up. Any thoughts?

Call her. Keep conversation mellow ... Try to get a follow up in person meeting. Either tell her what you want from the getco or escalate then break it down.