I know this is posted in the wrong forum; however, I have not reached the min posts to enter the "relationship" thread

I recently got a new gf who is the one that asked for us to be exclusive to which I agreed. We have been spending a lot of time together and all is going well. I just got off the phone with her and asked her what she had planned for tonight. I am busy working so we did not have any plans together.

On the phone she told me that she is going to her guy friend's house to smoke weed etc. I have personally never met this fellow; however, I have heard his name brought up a few times in her circle of friends and it seems as though they view him as a goofy, clown, funny friend, rather than someone any of them are physically attracted too.

I personally do not smoke weed much and my gf respects this. Is it just my insecurity here, or is this a red flag and should I call her out for going to this guy's house alone? Especially when it is a guy I have not previously met.

On the other hand she did mention it to me and it doesn't seem as though she is trying to hide anything. I do not want to come across as needy or insecure, so i'm not sure how to approach this. I do trust her for the most part, as she has not given me any reason not to.

Furthermore, she asked if I could pick her up from his place after I'm done working and if she could then keep my car for the night because she has an appointment in the morning and she will not be able to use her mother or her sister's car. Would it be DLV if i were to pick her up from some other guy's house? Should I agree to this or not?

Thanks in advance for your help!

Like you said she's not trying to hide anything, and she knows you're gonna feel uncomfortable so she's letting you pick her up from the weed place.

Let it go

I am not into girls who smoke weed. I banged one for a few weeks, but would have never LTR'd. her.

with that out of the way, I would want to meet the guy. my GF has a few guy friends. most of them are gay. the one who is probably not gay is as badly AFC as it gets. if she goes to the movies with this one guy, even 1-on-1, I am fine with it. but the first time she mentioned she was hanging out with MC, I wanted to meet him. if I were you, I would want to meet this "friend" and decide if you are/are not comfortable with it. especially since they are being alone at a private place, getting high. it is a risky situation. one I would not be comfortable with. but, again, I would not seriously date a girl who is into weed.

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