Shagged a girl a couple of times wrote I left uni, now I'm at home. Been texting her whilst gaming other girls and have gotten Shags a couple times. Anyway this texting with the girl I shagged escalated last week.

Basically I sent her a "close" text where I Negged her then said "right off to cinema now so night night sexy"

Couple of days later I got some sext texts which got dirtier and dirtier including her informing me that she loves to be dominated and she only wants to continue if I am into that. I am. I sent her a text back telling her what I had planned for her (involved rope, spanking and being forced to look in a mirror as she gets fcked.)

She replied with "mmmmm that's exactly what I'm looking for"

-no contact between us for a week

I text her 2 days ago giving her another example Of what I was gonna do. No reply as f yet.

I'm considering just leaving it as its a month and a half before I see her again an im running out of shit to talk about over texts.

Good idea? If so what would be a good way to get her ass around mine when we both get back an haven't contacted each other in a while. I was thinking of just calling her going "hey I got back yesterday, u back? Get your ass round here then"

It's kinda happened to me before.

She's not replying to your texts because she either felt B Remorse (she felt like a slut or she think she might went too far with texts), because she's just talking shit* or because she's done with that and wants you to take next step..

If shes taken by Buyers remorse, its quite likely she wont reply the way you're looking for, in a while, even if you call her. If that's the case I'd recomend you texting her ocassionaly about other things, lets say, 2 text conversations per week... Yep, you might loose your sexual frame if you start talking about other stuff, but if she's got remorse and you stop talking to her, she might feel even worst and will probly start shit testing you.

Another possibility is that she's just talking shit. What I mean by this is that she's trying to be something she's not, and with you, she's trying to play the "I'm such a sex addict" role, but she's not, and now, she may have started to rationalize all the things she's said to you.
Maybe she thought it was not that much of a good idea to sex things up with you after all. You can still fuck her nice if you manage to change that process in her mind.

Finally, its also likely that she is a slutty experienced girl and does want to have rough sex with you (including chains, whips, latex and knives..) but she's more into the practical side of things, meaning, she's either waiting for you to visit her or waiting for you to make solid plans for when she comes to town... Or at least something else than just texting sexually..

It's up to you man. I'd pay her a visit if I were you.


OH and by the way, its also possible that she just lost her phone, or maybe her mother or any other family member found her cellphone and saw those texts. Maybe she got in trouble....

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Im pretty sure that shes not bullshitting:

A) She was the one who brought it up. Also during our first time she asked me to stranger her, 2nd time she asked me to spank her and the 3rd time to pull her hair so she screamed. She also says the dirtiest things.

B) tbh she did mention after the sex that shes "not into texting, can't be arsed with that" so i assume the meetup one is a good one. However I'm busy for a couple of weeks after this weekend with work, festival, work and sorting out university stuff. I'm also gaming this other girl who I've shagged once now and want more so il stick with that.

I think if I haven't received a reply/opener (she has randomly text me at 12/1 at night "I am so wet for you right now" before) in a couple weeks I'l either text her a standard reopener or call her then be like "Well enough with the bullshit texting do you wanna meet up or not"

I can pretty much gain a "shes wants it" or "she doesn't" when I do that.

You're on dude!

Good strategy

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Update:

She contacted me, simply asked when I was back in london town. I said I would be back at the end of sept. she said she gets back then too but that it sucks because her housemates won't be moving in for another week do she'll be all lonely. I negged her for being a loner then brought it back up by saying I would keep her company when I could and that there's a lot of fun things we could get up to. She replies with "haha, sounds good!"

Seems all is cool

Future plan: I'm away at a festival for the weekend and there's a girl going there that I want to have sex with so concentrate on that shit now, can be arsed to text during music anyway. Reopen sometime next week then call her when we're both back in london and be all "lets do this shit"