The last two weekends I have had a girl in my bed, but I haven't been able to close the deal.

Girl #1:
Friend of mine that I've known for a while. We were out with a group of friends, headed to happy hour, and next thing I knew we were in bed together. Both of were naked. I was able to rub my hand around her vagina, but she started crossing her legs blocking my access down there.

Girl #2
I went out on a day #2 with this girl to a winery. We changed locations twice then headed back to my place. We started hooking up and I had similar results. We were both down to just her our underwear, but anytime I would move to rub down there or take off her underwear, she would grab my hand and pull it back.

Any advice on preventing/getting past this resistance?
Have I lost my chance at future F closes, because I failed this time?

Check out the link below, starting from 40 minutes in, up until Lyons finishes talking about his best set ever. The techniques he uses in that set can easily be applied to your situation. I think this will 'fix' you.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6TGBKaR76c[/youtube]

That's some powerful stuff right there. I wish I had that Saturday night! I'm sure I'll get another chance though.

I know I was really close is frustrating as she even said "I love your confidence." Thanks for responding.

Great. Well, if you do get to capitalise on another chance, I look forward to hearing from you.

Awesome video. Especially over analyzing a shit test in context of framing

this works for me. take her to her or your place. Ask her if she wants a massage. "You look tired. Here, lemme give you a little backrub." After all the rubbing and escalation is done, Kiss. While you kiss, touch all around and escalate.

Now to smash her, I usually don't ask. That makes me seem unsure of what she's feeling. Rather I just take her hand and put in right down my pants when I have a rock hard boner. If she pulls away, try again later. If she plays with it, then you're good to go.