A few days ago I met an old family friend for the first time in over a decade. We're now in our early 20s and she has grown into a gorgeous HB9! I was staying at her house so I assumed I had somewhat of an advantage.

We had a lot to talk about considering the novelty of seeing the adult versions of each other and spent a long time chatting until everyone else had gone to bed. The conversation flowed nicely as I Neged her about using fake tan. As the night drew on, I suggested we stay up all night watching movies in the Den which is on the bottom floor and far out of earshot of the bedrooms. There was a full cabinet of alcohol left over from a party a few feet away which I was informed had not been touched for months. Oh joy!

She changed into Pyjamas, put on some perfume and offered to share a blanket. "Tonight I shall be thoroughly sexed!" I mused. At this point there was a sudden change of pace. I edged closer to her to see how she responded, nothing. I commented on the film to receive short distracted replies. Ok so she was watching a movie but something was amiss. Her body language become more defensive as she leaned her head the opposite direction to mine and put her knees up.

She went for a cigarette, I let her go, not wanting to seem too keen. When she returned, I had positioned myself in such a way that her only option was to share a very small space under a blanket with me or sit clear on the other side of the sofa. INGENIOUS!...right? Wrong! She chose the latter. I showed her a picture of her dog wearing sunglasses I'd taken while she was away...mother of God I was losing it! She smiled politely and asked if I minded if she went to bed. "Of course not" I replied. 6am. 10 hours of conversation in a desolate palace of cushions and alcohol...nothing. No sofas were soiled and no boos were consumed. The only vestige of geniality, she asked me to wake her up when my family and I were leaving. No good morning and half a second of hug was exchanged before I took my leave.

How could I have sealed the deal that night? Is a family friend dangerous and foolish territory to be dealing with? Can I salvage anything through the medium of Facebook? All this and more will be revealed if and when someone is kind enough to read this essay!

In my oppinion,you choose the wrong subjects to talk..
If you go on and on about how you didn't saw each other since kids,how you have grown up,etc,you only stay in a friend zone.

you should have game her like every other girl...you should have negg her more,and built comfort,and attraction..I think cocky would work very nice there..

you stayed just a guy from her childhood,who came too strong without some background for something more that a friend.

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Thanks for your help! I definitely could've negg her a bit more. She spoke about ex boyfriends for a while so I'm not sure if that was an ioi or just more of the friend zone chatter. Do you think it's worth pursuing this further?

At this point did you become sexual? Did you add kino? or prior?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

No, come to mention it I don't think I used any at all. Also by "thoroughly sexed I mused" I meant thought to myself. Still very new to the game. Are there any general routines I can employ for this sort of situation. As well as any tips a newbie could make use of? Thanks

In-lies the problem!

She EXPECTS you to sexually escalate since you’re a man, it’s normal and not low value to want sex…in fact if you don’t go for it she’s left to think you don’t like her, in that way, you didn't show any sign that you DID!

Starting with the conversation, prior to, or just after isolation. With sexual innuendo, remarks, and TOUCHING! ....always moving forward.
Yeah I got that, but SHE did not, SHE cannot read your mind, it's your job to SHOW her!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Oh I see. I'll keep that in mind! Thanks again!