Hey guys,

Is this considered a flake? This HB8 has been showing some IOIs when we met last Friday (we've known each other for a while), but I've never had a 1 on 1 D2 with her.


She initiates:

HB: Hey!
So yeah I don't know what to take yet

Me: Lool okk yeah me neither..
Howd u do?

HB: Meh
Hahahaha
So how's lifeeeee

Me: Idk lol
Life's rly good but I'm super bored for some reason
Want to go somewhere and do something (she thought i was asking her out, I was just making a statement)

HB: Suree
Let's go to aritzia and shop
Hahahaha

Me: Yo let's go to the mall tmr, I need to buy shoes lol
And I have no idea what aritzia is

HB: LOLOL
Too far yo
Do they not have it on king
I have to go to school tmr

Me (an hour later): Sry on pnone w/ sister lol

HB: Aww

Me: Juust finished
We were playing this name-a-country game and she was throwing out stuff like Marshall Islands lol
I just got destroyed by a 12 year old

HB: LOL
I actually just msged my brother too
And whining about how he never txts me
Loool

Me: Lol my sister whines abt how I never call her (to my mom)
I think its just a guy thing

HB: Nooo
My friends bro calls his sis
All the timeeeee

Me: O
Maybe its just u then lool
Anyways, let's just go some other time! I have smth at 4 then at 6:30 tmr anyways

HB: Ohh
Yea he's trying to ask me about my life
But I don't wannt talk to him
Broke my heart

Me: Lol sounds about right
I'm gonna stop being unproductive and get some work done. Talk to u later!

HB: Byebye


I know my text game was non-existant in this one, I wasn't really focused. Do you think her not confirming another time to meet is considered a flake? Any next steps?

Thanks!

Its tough to say what someone is THINKING. You can only go by their ioi and id say her asking you to get pizza is an awesome ioi. From here, dont blow her up with txt msgs. Save it for when you finally get to see her. If she txts you again, you're the man! And get a d2 assembled asap. If not, txt here within a few days, short n sweet convo, and within 2 or 3 msgs let her know you're trying to meet.

Hope this helps!

Awesome, thanks a lot for the advice nitty03! I definitely think she's interested.

I actually just ran into her today on the street. Here's what happened:

I was going to mcdonalds down the block while she was heading home in the other direction. She says she'll come with me since she had to go to the washroom (though she's a block away from home). She goes to the washroom, I get my food, and we start walking home. She was brushing her hair as we walked. What threw me off is instead of walking with me and taking the slightly longer way home, she took the shortcut while we were talking. Like literally mid-sentence.

Is she just shy or something, or was the convo not interesting enough? Should I be more authoritative next time we meet?

Thanks!

Wow that's awesome you got to hang with her for a minute. A part of me thinks that you're thinking a little too far into it. She walked the other way probably because when she saw you she was happy to spend a couple moments with you but after that was done she had other things to do

Some things I would have been more noteworthy on is getting more Kino iois you know casual things like bumping her slightly while walking and brushing your arm against hers. Maybe saying did you wash your hands? And then grabbing her hands and inspecting them. Kino escalation is really important. It could have ended in a kiss close even a casual kiss on the cheeck or a solid hug. Or even an f close in a perfect world

Remember there's no rejection just feedback. Good luck to you with her, and make sure she's not the only girl you're gaming with.

Haha awesome. I knew for a fact that she didn't have anything else to do that day, it's not like she was in a rush or anything. It might just be that she's shy.

It's funny cause I did use the 'did you wash your hands' line, but didn't think to inspect. I'll have that in my back pocket from now on.

I'm meeting with her next Monday for an interview (she's president of a party club at my college, that I applied for), so I'll kino there and try to escalate. In the mean time, I'll game other girls . Thanks again buddy.