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So here you are, with her at your apartment. You want to put some music on. What do you play?

(for now, Tracy Chapman is best what I've found)

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Ed Sheeran, the National, James Iha, Damien Rice..

That's my main go-to library, along with other artists in the same genre. Keep a playlist, and don't call it 'music for guaranteed sexual arousal'.

Young girls seem to respond well to Sheeran btw. Chapman should also fit in well with these artists.

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@LeSuede: thanks but let's be clear...

This is not the kind of music I am looking for. NO romance at all. How to explain it...
Ok, you are going with her back to your place, you say "You can only stay for a second, I have to get up early" and the put some music on. Not to arouse her, just to keep her mind occupied when there is a before-kiss-close silence. These are good during intercourse, no doubt, but what to play before?

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Pardon the late reply.. been busy.

Ok I hear you, you know my only real advice would be to beforehand find out what she likes and put on something similar. This'll make her feel you two have more in common. It's probably not wise to put on something she totally loves as she might want to play music for ages haha.

Personally I put on something not far from what was played in the bar/club and escalate quickly. If she's in your apartment she knows what's up anyway.

Oh, I'm assuming it's a club pull by the way. On a normal date I'd go with something I know she likes, or at least in that genre. Having a big music library is of course essential.

It really depends on the girls interests, 99% of girls I talk to are party girls so going with ¡Mayday! (June is a good song), The XX, A Day to Remember, Baby Bash "Body Moves Slow", Bei Maejor, Kid Rock, Flux Pavillion, Framing Hanley, Chamillionaire (On My Way, Grown and Sexy) Shinedown, Hinder, Yelawolf, Tech N9ne, Five Finger Death Punch (Bad Company, Remember Everything, Walk Away, Far From Home), Mary J Blage, Awolnation, Evanescence, Missez, Bassnectar, Flyleaf, In This Moment, Skrillex, or just decent Dubstep with good drops, Krizz Kaliko, Aaliyah (something timeless like "I Care For U"), Musiq Soulchild, Lil Wayne (She Will), Robin Thicke (Dreamland), Miguel (Vixen), Roscoe Dash, Staind, Ryan Leslie (Glory), Skylar Grey, Ciara (like Ride), Belly (Canadian Artist "ReBellyUs"), Ginuwine, MT Eden, Wale (Lotus Flower, Bag of Money, Pretty Girls, Contemplate, Diary), Bad Meets Evil, Slaughterhouse, Ludacris, Pitbull, NERD (Provider), LMFAO, AFI, Electrik Red (wfy, drink in my cup), Wiz Khalifa... This is off the top of my head but as long as it isn't hard black metal (Lamb of God, Cradle of Filth), extreme bubble gum music (barbie girl, blu), or extremely sappy music (unbreak my heart, I will always love you). Go to any club, see what the girls are dancing to that you like, and do you research of similar artists and generas. Strip clubs are good places to go for good ideas on music too. I've learned about some good bands and decent techno or dubstep from places like that where I would've never have heard it. I listed a lot of modern music but also things that won't make the girl feel uneasy. The more you chill the more you'll get a feel for what she likes. Remember to mix the music so its like a rollercoaster of emption and tempo but also at a steady increase and decrease as a good dj would.