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| nubbster | PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 4:02 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:20 pm Posts: 6 Location: Arizona | | So I hooked up with this girl I work with. We've had some strong flirting and sexual tension for a week or two and I finally had her come pick me up to get drunk together. We hooked up and hung out til the early morning hours where she told me about how she likes me bla bla. I didn't Fclose and instead of freezing her out I just kept trying and couldn't sleep haha. She finally insisted on giving me a ride home. I just randomly thought of this but around that time she was texting with someone and smiling...I assumed it was her roommate but now I'm not too sure. I've never got the impression she had a bf but who knows, I guess I didn't think it was a guy because it was like 8 or 9 in the morning. The next day I sent her a couple texts just messing around with her and trying to feel things out. She didn't respond much and left me as the last one texting which I hate because I like being in control. It's been a couple days and I haven't heard from her...though until that night we've never really texted, just hung out at work. I don't want to text her because I don't want to look needy or whatever. I actually don't really care because I don't know her much yet but I hate not being good at stuff and want to improve my game which is what's really bugging me. Do you think she lost interest? Do you think she felt bad about getting drunk and hooking up (plus she told me her roomate likes me)? Or should I try and contact her again? I'll obviously see her at work in two days, maybe I should just wait until then. If I do that, should I freeze her out while working? Or just play it cool like it was a fun night and no big deal? Would love to hear what you guys have to say.
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| sika | PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2012 9:09 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 9:04 pm Posts: 53 | | Id play it cool. show that you are completly confortable with what ever happens, and most of all dont act awkward. just keep the escalation subtle at work and progressive.
forget about her room mate she would allready know you two have hooked up, girls cant keep shit like that to themselves.
she will try to ignore it and make things awkward Id say, by bieng cool she will get confused(and possibly angry for you not reacting) but just hold strong and her attraction for you will increase. there all just shit tests. just act completely comfortable, that is all you need to do. Prepair for frustration. I can gaurentee it.
also line up your next one while this process is happening. keep the cycle going. this suituation IMO never leads to a constant lay or GF. but you will shawshank her if you are patient and not burn your bridges.
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| nubbster | PostPosted: Sat Jul 07, 2012 7:47 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:20 pm Posts: 6 Location: Arizona | | So yeah she didn't show up for work the next week which I thought was weird. I tried to contact her via text just to see what was going on... no response. Then when she finally came back to work I just kept flirting and being fun like normal. I think she was surprised but things seemed cool. Which is weird and confusing b/c if she's still into it why not respond to anything? Anywho, it was a good night, I had lots of chicks flirting with me and got a couple numbers and my boss pointed that out at the end of the night in front of everyone lol. Towards the end of the night I kinda started to ignore her and pay more attention to the other chicks. I've got no idea how she feels or what but I do know I don't care anymore lol caus there are tons of other options out there. It's just like everyone says, it's all about your attitude.
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