I am not really good at escalating, at time it feel out of place but sometimes its easy. I still don't understand why its easy at time, maybe cause the women allow it? Escalate in a pub or bar is easier, especially if i am next to her. But what about not so ideal location and if opportunity don't present itself?

For example;

a cafe ?

a restaurant ?

gokart ?

shopping complex ?

what else ?

I have no problem with kino-ing, holding her hands, leading her, hugging her and playing with her hair. How do we move to kiss, does she need to present the opportunity? cause the last time i felt there was a barrier there and i couldn't seems to cross its as if she subtlety put a wall up.