First post! Read a lot on here, time to post my own.

I met this girl at a club last weekend, she came up dancing on me and we got pretty close right off the bat. After a few mins, she asked me my name, we talked for a few and then I said we should go outside. We shared a cigarette and talked for a while, good eye contact, laughing, lots of kino and she was touching my chest. On the way back in, I talked to a friend for a sec and then she came up to me and said "you better take down my number before we loose each other".

She definitely initiated more my way than I did hers. I tried to be playful and not just give in to her demands right away as well. But she was obviously interested.

We danced more, made out, then her friends were leaving and she said she had to go. We kissed once more in passing at the coat check and I said I would call her. She said "You better" and I slapped her ass and told her to get out of here.

I called her up 2 days later saying we should go for a drink and she said had to check her work schedule first and see when she's free and would call me back.

That was 3 days ago. Should I wait for her to call back? Send her a text after a week or so? Or is she a flake?

I think you need to ask k-loc/Socialkenny

hes the expert on this club topic along with Skills360

Im fairly certain Kenny is gonna tell you to throw that shit out the window.

She ended up txting me the other night saying she had been really busy but wanted to meet up this week. So we're meeting up tonight.

No phone calls though, but the girl seems younger, so I guess texting has become much more acceptable now? Or she's too nervous to call. Maybe I should calibrate txting vs phone call based on how old I think the girl is?

Also, should I have sent her a text a couple hours after we met saying something like 'was nice to meet you tonight'.

I always text I rarely call.
never do this, its try hard and sounds like your trying to calibrate her, because you are.

When a girl texts you the same thing after a date, here is my standard reply.



and....that's it for that night. it says something but let her attach meaning to it, and it isn't try hard.

Interesting. In what cases are you calling her?

She texts you? Do you always swap numbers? As opposed to just getting hers?