Okay guys I'm a newbie and I need some help.
I have been practicing PUA for about 2 months and Tuesday this week I saw a HB7 in the gym that I decided to open. I must have done things right because it escalated during the week, and it ended up that she gave me her number - I didn't even have to ask.
Thursday and Friday we met in the gym as well and had around a 30min conversation during both days. I learn that she has a boyfriend, but also that he is boring and that they are fighting.
Saturday night she writes that she wants to go for a jog to get away from homework. I agree to go with her. The jog turns out to be a good walk, which ends up at my house. I start to pull DHV on her just to get some training. I tried the cube for the first time and it looked like she was impressed. I tried the 5 wrong question bet as well - all good DHV's. During the night we discuss her relationship with her BF (he's being a douche to her) and we talk about sex.
No kino escalation what so ever, because I am afraid that she is going to stop and pull out.
Anyway my problem is that she is sending so many signals that she wants to do something crazy and break out of her shell, but she keeps on saying that she is not going to cheat on her boyfriend. I know this is ASD, and that is the only thing I have to get past in order to F-close.
Do you guys have any suggestions in how to escalate kino and get through her ASD? - I realize that it has to be initiated by me and I shouldn't give her time stop and think about what she is about to do. But do you have some small tricks I can use?
My main concern is to end in the friend zone...
Thanks in advance, this forum is AWESOME!