K guys, over the past week, i've been approaching girls at the train, restaurants, etc. Response has been good so far, and getting a number close is no problem. Rapport is there, girls show IOIs, convo gets 2 sided, they are comfortable when i touch them, etc.

However, sometimes due to logistics reasons (plans they make etc. etc.), i cannot continue interaction with them, and have to cut things short with a phone number or something. This is when it gets bad. over sms is hard to convey overt sexual gestures, and sometimes intention is not brought across.

So following up with a day 2 is hard, which is where the F-closes usually happen. Once on to day 2, things usually get easy. Would really like to get over this sticking point to drastically improve game.

HERE IS JUST AN EXAMPLE, CAN BE SKIPPED IF U WANT

EXAMPLE HERE: just last night, i went out with couple a buddies for mexican food. We so happen to meet this girl/acquaintance [she's short but really cute 8/10] i knew from high school. She was working at an ice cream parlour. So we chatted for a bit, caught up a little, and she seemed really into me. Maybe she was bored cause she was studying and business was bad, but convo got 2 sided soon. Tried hang out w/ her after work, but she was meeting friends for supper. so not free to hang out.

I left cause i had to catch up with my buddies, but i came back to see her again. she was pretty happy to see me. I asked her what she was studying and chatted again. Asked if she wanted to take photo she said yes, kino here. took 3-4 photos. Eventually other customers came, and i made off with her phone number, telling her we should hang soon. she was kinda sad i had to leave, but when i texted her, later, no reply.

Any advice on how to get day 2, or close on day 1 would be greatly appreciated, for this girl here, or girls in general (i.e a formula-ish thing).

If you want to have sex with a girl on the same day or on the second day - this is not easy- you just have to take care of logistics first, being one step ahead. When you want to have sex with a girl she usually will come up with some "excuse" or some "problem" and you have to be there to solve it, you have to be there to provide solutions. There is no secret thing you can do because that pretty much depends on each situation.
About having a day two, it's normal to get a date with a girl specially when you are starting. You say that getting phone number is not hard and that rapport is there maybe you should reconsider this last part, if you are getting lots of phone number but those phone numbers don't transform into dates then there is something you are not doing "well" or as "good" as you think.

Maybe these 2 videos can help you out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oga02d8 ... 7fH43BgX8=

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmdH ... tdzt5ayRs=

if you have any question you can post it here.
Good luck.

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thanks FCgame. U said at the last part, rapport could be something that i'm not doing as "well" or "good" as i think. So in ur experience, what are indicators of good rapport/attraction, and what can u do to build or increase it?

Indicator or good rapport? Making a connection with her, get her invested in the conversation -that is related witht he kind of questions that you ask, don't get into interview mode - prove her that you are genuinely interested in her and forget about "number closes or kiss closses" just go there and enjoy the moment, enjoy the conversation. The phone number has to be the "door" to get a date with her, do you know what I mean? it doesn't have to be the main reason why you are there or why you are talking to her if you are only after a phone number you are going to get that only a phone number.

When you call her or text her is very important the way you "sell" the date.
This is an interview with Hayley Quinn, she's one of the best dating coaches in the Uk and that's one of the topics we discussed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvfuidwR ... ature=plcp[/youtube]

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12