OK so here it is.

The "pick-up"
I had one of those days before the weekend and got around five numbers at this club. Each one within a minute or so. One of them was working there.

Since she was working there i thought i make the number quick so she could do her job.
I saw her getting something in a more cornered area and i walked passed her coming from the front and i dont think she noticed me, then i turned and came from behind, now discreetly blocking her path "by accident", looking at her.

Then when i "notice her" i smile for a while looking at her and say "i know youre working here and all, but since your so hot i have to get your number.." She looked surprised at me and said ok and started saying it kind of looking around her like if someone saw her.. I couldnt hear shit so i just gave her the phone and told her to type it. She held the phone down by her waist and typed it in quickly, we exchanged names and parted.

This is all i know about this girl, i cant even remember how she looks, just that i thought she was good-looking (also, working at that club she must be at least 7+) .. I think she was asian aswell. Whatever..


Days after:

We texted the day after and it went pretty bad. Booring replies, not many questions back and some oneword replies.

Now it has gone several days since that and im home sick and boored so i figured i give it a go again.



Heres how it goes (its translated from swedish so some things might seem weird):

Me: Hi "nameofbar"lady! Are you going out tonight again or whats your plans : )

Her: Today im actually only taking it easy : )

Me: Does that mean you wil be home watching extreme home makeover?

Her: yea kind of ^^

Me: Oh. I got the idea you were a adventureous girl..

Her: Yes but i have to take it easy, has become very much lately

Me: Understand. Are you normally a talkative person?

Her: yea

Me: Haha Prove it then

Her: Can do that when we meet, now i have to fix some stuff at home

Me: What now,.. are we going to meet?

her: yes didnt you want that?

Me: If you show me a good place in "my area"... since you were from here right?

The answers came relatively fast, but it ended suddenly here with her not answering. I should have cut out ".. since you were from here right?" in the last message to keep the ball on my court. Or not even answer the last one at all.

How should i continue from this? I dont mean only tonight, but later aswell.
Reason i care is she lives close to my area and it would be nice to have express fuckbuddy.

Otherwise i have to say my texting-game sucks when i dont know anything about a girl so help me with that aswell!

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Dont fight it, enjoy it..

She agreed to meet up. Forget about this no-response situation.

(By the way, the correct answer to "Can do that when we meet, now i have to fix some stuff at home" is "Cool. [Place] at [time], think youll be done fixing things by then?")

Next time youre going out, or want to go out for food or something, invite her. If she says no to the invite, and she might, tell some short story about something funny that happened to you that day, then end the conversation pretty quick. Then invite her out again in a few days.

Just keep sending invites until it's clear that she doesn't want them anymore.

Thanks for a quick reply!
Its a good idea to try and do something straight away, if i just werent sick. Im not falling for the i-go-on-like-nothing-even-though-im-sick-routine and become even worse.
I think ill do something that way when i contact her again. Maybe i just happend to have my way by her area and wonder if she wants to do something.. but yes, short and not desperat.

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Dont fight it, enjoy it..