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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 3:37 am 
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So, I met this girl a about a week ago and I'm trying to set up a date with her over facebook chat.

Four days ago we chatted, just some fluffy talk about music and concerts.

Yesterday (tuesday) about 6pm the we had the following chat.
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Peroba - Hey girl
HB - Hiay
Peroba - Let's hang out at park xxx Thursday afternoon?
HB - depends on the time, I have class at 7pm
Peroba - I have a lecture 6.30pm, let's go early, about 3pm?
HB - we'll see
Peroba - ok, I have to go class now, kisses
HB - have a nice class! kisses
Today she was online and I sent her:
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Hey
3pm @ landmark xxxxx?

That was about two hours ago, she's still online on FB and active (liking and commenting other folks updates) but haven't sent me any reply.

What should I do now?

Btw, I'll probably be around the park tomorrow anyway (with some friends instead of her lol), don't know if that matters.

Obs.: I translated the chats from portuguese, so some nuances of the conversation might be lost.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 4:24 pm 
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Even though I don't know how interested this girl is, let me break down several things i would have done differently.

1 You asked her to chill wayyyy to early in the conversation. I don't know if you have her number, but you should always ask to chill at a high point.

2 Not exactly sure why you said "kisses" to me it seems to be showing too much interest but I could be completely wrong.

3 If you don't know her that well, chilling at the park at night could be a red flag to her. She doesn't know you that well and you could be trying to take advantage of her.

Now your question was where to take it from here. What would a man do? I would say don't say anything to this girl for about a week. Maybe she will make plans with you, but probably not. Nof offense to you, it's just the way girls do things. Hit her up in about a week, make a reference to whatever you guys built your rapport on, build comfort, and then ask if she wants to come along with you to a certain event.

Go find some other girls too. This one isn't over. Go out in the next week and meet new people


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 5:49 pm 
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Even though I don't know how interested this girl is, let me break down several things i would have done differently.

1 You asked her to chill wayyyy to early in the conversation. I don't know if you have her number, but you should always ask to chill at a high point.
When I met her we build some rapport and she sent a ton of IOIs, I honestly didn't KC her because I was too drunk and too stupid. Maybe I should have talked a bit more but I really hate online chatting and I don't have her phone number...
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2 Not exactly sure why you said "kisses" to me it seems to be showing too much interest but I could be completely wrong.
Here in Brasil it doesn't mean anything.
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3 If you don't know her that well, chilling at the park at night could be a red flag to her. She doesn't know you that well and you could be trying to take advantage of her.
3PM is in the middle of the day. lol
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Now your question was where to take it from here. What would a man do? I would say don't say anything to this girl for about a week. Maybe she will make plans with you, but probably not. Nof offense to you, it's just the way girls do things. Hit her up in about a week, make a reference to whatever you guys built your rapport on, build comfort, and then ask if she wants to come along with you to a certain event.
That's about what I was planning. I'll just ignore her a week or so.
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Go find some other girls too. This one isn't over. Go out in the next week and meet new people
Don't you worry about that, I'm on a streak actually, over the last week I went out 5 nights to bars and nightclubs and got 3 KCs and 2 PCs. ;)

Thanks for the help!


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