| Hi Guys!
A long time since I actually started a topic of my own; my game is pretty top notch at the moment and I don't usually need advice. But.
For those who don't want to read my essay, scroll down to the bottom for a "too long didn't read" summary.
Back in October I got one-itus for one girl, I have no idea why but it just happened. It was so bad that I just couldn't use my game on her, ever. I mean it would come out wrong, or it would feel wrong to be gaming her or I just could not flat out charm her.
Here is what happened. I met her at college one day, ran some game on her and we went shopping and I got tonnes of IOIs.
That night she messages me on SPAM, clearly into me and we chatted every night and at college. Here's the problem, my biggest fuck up. I was addicted to video games, and so I wasn't giving her the attention she deserved when we were instant messaging, I'd be distant and she clearly got frustrated, but because I wasn't that into her at the time, I thought, it really doesn't matter that much.
Ok so the attraction between us waned after she decided that I wasn't interested. She basically just forgot about it and so did I.
Then I went away on holiday for two weeks, it was an expedition so lots of walking and time to think and somehow or other I got one-itus.
Try again when I get back but can see she's now not interested because of the above, and I try to regame her, simply can't cause of one-itus. Don't feel right etc etc.
Anyway skip ahead!
Slowly been building attraction, went out clubbing with her and one of my guy mates on thursday night. Danced with her a lot and spent the whole night AMOGing guys who were trying to get with her. (Did it well so it didn't look protective.)
Go back to my mates house, all three of us are sleeping there. I go to say good night to her in the spare room and we lay down and chat. I got back to the sofa in the other room and she texts me saying she doesn't want to sleep alone in a strange house so I go back in and lay down. We kissed but then she rolls over and says "Good night." + it was the most obvious shit test ever. I would've looked way too needy if I rolled over with her and tried to keep kissing her so I laid next to her with my arm around her. She eventually rolled back over to me and we just fell asleep together.
Ok so the next day my mate wakes us up really early cause it turns out he's fancied her for ages but he never told me. So he wakes us up really early to kinda break us up. After that me and the girl just smile at each other and all three of us walk down the road and go our separate ways to get home.
This happened thursday night/friday morning. Been texting her a bit but now dont know how to proceed and since I've never been able to not game a girl like this before.
Tl:DR! SUMMARY.
Got one-itus for a girl that I cannot game because I freeze out/it doesn't work/I don't want too cause I like her too much; need some advice on how to proceed after kissing her when we were both drunk at a mates house and we haven't spoken about it since (althought we have texted just chatting.) Happened last thursday.
This has never happened to me before so advice on how to proceed would be awesome from anyone who has had the same.
Background info : Have gamed many sets and seperate girls with great success.
Also, quit video games so no longer a problem.
Appreciate any help etc etc!
Happy sarging!
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