I unintentionally drew a completely amazingly off the chain hot women into a situation with me...

after hanging out one weekend together at a retreat (in proximity by default) she came home with me, got us drunk, and we had amazing sex.
As soon as I started really liking her, I could see my game nose diving...classic
We hung out all day the next day, and she left me with the suggestion of us hanging out the following day too...

the following, she texted me an invite to go out on a day trip with her and some friends. So i went. Knowing that she is interested in other guys as well....and there on this excursion some dude she obviously also likes, who she couldn't help herself but flirt with, as he made himself look like a complete idiot fawning after her offering her things and being desperate. I knew my best tactic was to be vivacious and funny and not be bothered by it at all, and spend time focusing on her friend....but I was feeling off, and couldn't muster it. The best I could do was just be cool and indifferent. Not good enough, I know. And I was a bit taken a back that she all of a sudden was giving attention to this other guy, and specifically not me....
why do they do that? I sort of began to wonder if she had just invited me along to even out the numbers..

On the way home, I made other plans while this guy was putting the major creeper moves on her. I could tell she was backing away from him due to his extreme creepy behaviour and possibly angling for hanging out with me instead, but she knew that I had "other plans" so dropped me home, and I left her with a smile and a cool "see you later".

The next day, I woke up feeling on top of my game and decided that I wanted to take her to the park for a picnic and sweep her off her feet with humor and seduction.... so I texted...with the intent of spontanaity....a couple of texts to the effect....where are you!? and ive got an idea.... call me.....

No response. And that was two days ago.

So I'm torn here... I know this girl likes me, at worst, I think she has mixed feelings (due to my mixed messages) and is also distracted by the barrage of men that she can take her pick from at any moment, even if, imo, they are losers... and I know that there is yet another guy, she may indeed have spent the weekend with...

A freeze out (longer than the two days its already been) might be too extreme this early, especially when they are other guys involved. plus. I know I likely wont just see her around...I know I just need another chance to hang out with her alone so I can focus on making her feel good around me without the distraction of these dudes...The only option I have is to call her. But I probably only have one chance to nail it here. I need to close on a day 2!


thx yall