Had a girl flake on second date today. she's 18 I'm 20. she said

hey I'm really sorry but I don't think its gonna work out tonight :/ I'm sorta grounded and things have been really busy, I do still want to hang out though!... can I let you know a day that works for me?

I replied with
I take it you weren't into the twix plan....(I told her earlier in the week it sounds like were gonna have to break her out of her house. I told her I was bringing rope and a distraction and she asked what the distraction was and I.said a twix bar) disappointing haha seriously though you for sure can let me know a day that works for you

she replied with
I thought the twix plan was perfect but okay I will!

and after reading this I thought to myself motherfucker, this bitch just took the power into her hands. im gonna have to wait till she texts me with a day before there is any more contact. I suppose she thinks she's gonna torture me and have me wait till Sunday or something, she probably thinks il be in agony. I'm not even gonna think about it though, I know shel hit me up eventually.

but is there a positive side to this? I do have to say well played on her part haha

Hey wingman789,

She replied in the text saying she "was really sorry", and she's 18 so don't be too hard. Plus it the first time, give her the benefit of the doubt. Younger girls tend to be a little more flaky and spontaneous, for some of them, this is all new to them(dating), for others, their pro's.

She has no power right now. A girl who can't go out b/c she's grounded doesn't have power lol..If she does this again, or acts shady the next time you have something setup, than definitely put her in her place.

Best of luck,

samex

EDIT: Just saw the other thread, if it's the same girl, call her out on her bull shit.

Same girl haha, how should I call her out?
And how long would you guess till she contacts me?