I dont know if this is the right part of the forum but here i go....

okay i knew OF this girl from the time we were 16 through her bff who is a NINE (9) who was in my class...now we're all 22 and at university but not in the same class...not essential info tbh lol

anyhow...last year i asked her bff if her friend (a 7) was talkin to anyone and she said no. so i decided to make it known that i'd be interested. so she said that she'd let her know...long story short the girl saw me at school and gave me her number and said to call her. alrighty...that was september and i wasted a lot of time and didnt act too interested becuz i was talkin to another girl...which was a waste of time.

anyhow around christmas i told her bff i'd take out the girl and she said that i always say so but never follow up...so i decided to take her out. alrighty.

was a movie date and it went just ok...didnt even hug her or anyting...i was too soft...a few days later she texted me and said she likes me but doesnt think its romantic...

but somehow we arranged to meet on campus a few wks later and there was a mixup so i didnt end up meeting her...so she texted me veryyyy angrily that she'd like me to stop wasting her time..how do i expect something to grow with us if i'm acting like this

so i arranged to meet her again but didnt push anything...too much typing i'll fast forward

now sunday we spoke on the phone (went great) and we said we'd meet tuesday...valentines day lol...but since it was vday i had to get her something (gave her a rose and hugged her). now she was giving me IOs while we sat alone in a garden at the campus lol...we were there for 2 hrs and i played the numbers game which she lost on the 4th question (how many questions was that?)...i bet that the loser wud buy ice cream the next time we go out.

now she brought up relationship talk...such as what i look for, my previous etc and i asked her likewise and most of what i look for she does too...then she asked how long i was with a girl she went to school with...said nearly 4 yrs etc...

anyhow...later i said i wanna see where it cud go with the two of us...that i dont usually do this but i wanna explore it and see what cud happen between the two of us...while i was sayin this she smiled...but idk if it was "wtf is he doing" or "omg he is actually stepping up"...she said i'm puttin her on the spot and that she'll have to think about it...

she messaged me on msn when she got home and we spoke as normal...now i dont plan to bring it up...at least not soon for sure...i think if anything i'd ask her out thursday night to go somewhere on saturday...if she says yes its practically a yes...if she says no then its a no lol.

what do u guys think? i kno i gave her the power but hey...gambled...dont wanna waste months on one girl...been in talks for 6wks easily already (not daily)...and i'm still not rushing in...just told her i wanna see where it cud go