So, met this girl online, about a 7 in looks but we got on really very well. I'm honestly somewhat struggling in keeping her away from becoming a oneitis. (Don't worry, I am forcing myself to go sarge,etc)

Day 1 -
Originally met online, 2 days later we went out to a pub for drinks. Drinks turned into dinner, dinner turned into singing irish drinking songs with the entertainment. 3 hours total, walked her to the subway, she initiated the kclose, i pulled away first, she grabbed me and kissed me again, then turned and walked down the steps. She texts soon after asking for a day 2!

Day 2 - Dinner and a bottle of wine followed by games at my house. Had about 8 friends in attendance, 4 of them female friends. Several of my female friends were giving me IOIs right infront of the subject girl. HUGE social proof! Didn't get much alone time. Ended up making out a bit but she had to go.

Day 3 - She came back over to my house to watch some TV and drink a bit. She had work early the next morning so we only had like 90 minutes together. I started up the escalation ramp but i (somehow? We've had a ton of conversation at this point..) dont think i built enough comfort. She started getting pretty obviously uncomfortable when i went for the neck / put my leg between hers so I backed off. She had to go about 20 min later..but planted a few more on me when i walked her to the door. Said shed call me. She doesnt! I texted her twice in the week, got poor responses (she doesn't seem to be a texter...ever since I met her she never really texts so not reading too much into this).

Day 4 - What to do?

I called her today, did not make any mention at all of her flake. She said shes free saturday and monday, I'm busy saturday so we picked on next monday. I then ended the call before it got into too much of a conversation, said I'd let her know what we're doing.

Sooooo...ideas? So far its out to eat/drink twice, games with the friends, and tv. I want something with some alone time...but fun. Possibly something physical? Able to either make a move or easily transition back to one of our places to do so. Idea's so far are: 1) Laser Tag (theres a place right near her), i can ask to see her place and we can start drinking... 2) Salsa dancing. I'm honestly not a very good salsa dancer though....but I'm better than her (i started teaching her a little bit).

Appreciate the help! Also, please point out any weaknesses/mistakes you see along the way.
-Atlas

Oh bonus question: Valnetines day is tomorrow. Shes not yet earned me doing anything really special/big for her. But I think it'd be a mistake to just ignore it. Any ideas on this? I'm even thinking just send her pictures of a rose boquet and teasing her saying something like "Too bad you didn't meet me sooner! Maybe next year if you are lucky..."

bowling... tennis.... go karting. or even just go for a stroll in the park. if theres some event on like a theme park that would be ideal.. adrenaline and talking is what you want. build the comfort up

Ice Skating, physical, lots of fun (especially if neither of you are strong skaters), lots of kino (again if not strong skaters), not it's a date she will likely have not been on many times before, it's a bit out of the box compared to the normal dinner/drinks/movies etc she'll probably be used to.

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Ooh i like the ice skating idea! Theres an outdoor rink in walking distance from me in a square surrounded by bars. So we can skate, get drunk, and walk back to my place.

I think we have a winner. Good show musterion!!

Now...any tips on the valentines thing?