So I don´t know why but for some reason its really hard for me to get a day 2! I am pretty good at number and kiss closing at parties or bars and stuff, but something goes wrong after that.

My usual pattern is to text the girl the next day sometime around 4, and I usually get pretty good responses. If i try to make plans for a day 2 though, I always get some form of "I´m really busy right now" or "I already have plans then..." I´ll usually suggest an alternative time/date and if that doesn´t work I´ll go cold on them for a week or so and try again.

Any ideas as to what I may be doing wrong?

Thanks

Hey!
Don't worry so much man, that's a very common problem, that usually happens when you don't create enough connection with her. For most girls givin the phone number doesn't mean much, do you know what I mean? You shouldn't focus on getting her phone number.
About textixg, I'm not abig fan of texting. I think calling her is much better, one you call he she's gonna give you a lot of information to work with.

Check these 2 videos, I'm sure they can help you out. Good luck

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmdH ... YkdGE8l04O

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oga02d8 ... 20gNZIRx_F

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

If you've gotten good at getting numbers and kissing, you probably come off like a player. You certainly aren't forming any "connection", at least in their mind. Talking with them should unveil things that you both like to talk about. Ways to have a laugh together. Connecting... and giving her a reason to think you guys have something that may be worth continuing.

Also, if you're kissing when you first meet, it's very much like that's the only reason for meeting. One of you just kissed the other to get off. The best first kisses I've had are always after having a few dates. Of course you don't deliberately skip the moment when it comes, just to make it even better later, that's instant fail. The key is generating so much attraction that that moment comes, she faces you and really really wants to kiss you.