Hey guy just thought I'd give you some background before I get into the question

Met this girl maybe a year ago through mutual friends on a snowboarding trip, got to know her pretty well, became friends but always maintained high kino and constantly flirted back and fourth.

Couple weeks ago at a friends bday we both got pretty drunk and we ended up kissing but chalked it up to being drunk, besides a kiss/makeout isn't really that big of a deal imo.

Nothing really happened with us sexually but this weekend things changed. We planned another snowboarding trip couple months back and of all the people that were going I only knew her. We go on the trip, figured out the bedroom situation (she slept with me in the same bed) went boarding drank and partied at clubs at night.

We both got drunk the first night and danced the entire night at the club, some serious kino going on but nothing ending up happening between us that night do to some other complications.

The next day same thing, boarding party and club. Some guys we met on the trip were trying to dance with her ALL NIGHT and she would constantly shrug them off and dance with me. That night she kept telling me she wanted another massage from me again (I gave her one on the drive up to this place, she really liked it) and I would reply with something like "Only if you play your cards right" which she loved. Anyways, Again we both got drunk and at the end of the night headed home.

While in bed she told me I had to give her another massage but I told her to give me one first. She hops on my back takes off my shirt and starts going at it. After a while I flip over to that she would be straddling me instead of on my back and she hopped off to her side of the bed saying it was her turn.

I start massaging her back (her back facing me since she's on her side) and after a while I move my hands up and start playing with her tits. She doesn't say anything and seems cool with it, then I start to move my hands lower and when I put my hands in her panties and start feeling her pussy she says "no we can't do this" and takes my hand out of her panties.

I ask why and she starts telling me she's been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and although they are not dating she told me that she likes him and is unsure is they are gonna be exclusive or not.

I keep the small talk going, the entire time keeping the kino very sexual (playing with her hair, rubbing her legs and still playing with her tits) while we talk. She then says that if she wasn't seeing this guy she'd be down to hookup but because they might officially start dating she doesn't want to because she thinks its cheating.

So i got royally screwed because of this LMR and unfortunately didn't end up fucking her that night, next morning everything was normal she didn't act weird it\s as if it never happened which is a good thing since it's not awkward.

I really really like this girl, it's not just a 'I want to fuck her' type of thing. We texted today about the trip and everything was cool, she replied in the same way as always and it was playful/flirty convo. She never replied to my last text which I mentioned giving each other massages again one day (in a joking way)

Sorry about the long read guys but I thought it was necessary, my question is what should I do now/what should I have done that night and is this still salvageable? I really like this girl and don't want to lose it, advice is really needed guys.

Thanks again

i think maybe you went into her pants abit too fast and u did it whilst giving her a massage. i would have gradually kiss her neck and then flipped her over and start making out with her and work my way down.

the thing to do now is act like it never happened, keep the conversation has usual. When a girl gets paranoid, be abit empathetic and then change the subject to something else. when a moment presents itself when u two are giving each other massages, play it cool and slow yet in a dominant way, and tease her touching all the right areas without going directly to her pussy and the more she'll want to do it.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

I think you're right on how I moved a bit too fast, I should of turned her on more as opposed to going straight in. That's why I got LMR

So the best option is to not bring it up? Also she never replied to that last text (I'm assuming since I said something about massages), how long should I wait until I text her again?

Thanks again dude I really appreciate it, last question about it too what do you suggest I do about this guy she's starting to like? Anyway I can switch it so she falls for me instead or should I make a move soon so she forgets about him?

yeh. not bring it up at all. maybe wait about a day or two and text her.

concerning the other guy. be completely oblivious. pretend like her doesn't exist and just focus on you and your girl. you have to make her want you more than the other guy because you can offer the girl something which the other guy can't.

make a move on her, but dont do it too soon or too late. keep the attraction and rapport going. good luck man

UPDATE

Took your advice, played it cool and still have been talking with her back and fourth

Went out to a club with some friends last friday and she came. Were all on the dance floor for a solid half hour and she does NOTHING to initiate a dance or something with me (which is weird)

2 random girls bump into me on the floor (on purpose) and me and my buddy immediately start gaming them. I start dancing with this random girl (lots of kino and grabbing on her part)for 20minutes or so, then she turns to me says she\ll be right back.

LITERALLY 1 minute after the girl goes away my original target grabs my face with both hands and just says "yeah" and throws herself on me. Start grinding and a lot of KINO but no k-close.

She invites me to go boarding with her and 2 mutual friends that weekend which I went too. While on the drive up somehow the conversations turns to the guy she's been "seeing" but isn't exclusive with. So I text my buddy in the back seat to probe some questions about him (since he was the one who was talking to her about this guy anyway, wasn't obvious at all) he asks her if they're exclusive/dating and she gets very quiet and doesn't answer the question but changes the topic instead

She invited me to go boarding again this sunday, I've been keeping our texts slow and drew back a little bit.

DO you think a freeze out is in order? What to do next? This girl is driving me crazy and I hate it

Also ended up seeing that random girl at the club later in the night, made out with her for like 20 minutes #closed and have a day 2 planned this Thursday solid HB 8.5, so the night wasn't a total loss haha

Anyone? Would really appreciate some advice guys

I would say just freeze her out and start doing stuff with the other HB.

I'v had this happen before and as soon as i moved on to the other girl the original one started flirting with me again.

I'd say just play it cool and see where it goes. I mean who knows the other girl could be way cooler than the first girl

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