I´m new in the pua forum, and need help.
About 3 months ago, a new girl started working at my work place, in a hospital..
She is hot but has a boyfriend for 5years!! Normally, I wouldn´t think about picking a girl that is dating for so long.

We talked normally first, but in the early week, we had a christmas dinner, with all the collegues. Later, at the disco, she started stand beside me, touching me discretly with her arms, she even join her hand to mine and so one..but even after that I wasn't thinking about picking her.lol (I was interested in another girl)
In the next few days, we started to exchange phone messages. Almost always her starting the conversation...

I thought, fuck it...maybe she has relationship problems, and I started to play it too..

She evens teases me, saying she knows sexual dances, etc.. Saying that the next time, If SHE COULD (boyfriend) she would grab me and dance with me and I would go crazy!!!

But every time I try to push it a bit, she says... " I can't, I have a boyfriend"
What should I do or say?
techniques??

A lot of chicks who have been in a long term relationship do that shit. They want to know that they can still attract guys. She is just a tease. Keep her at a distance, you can entertain her if you want, but I would strongly recommend moving onto other chicks.
I have something similar with a married chick. She actually was straight up hitting on me, and when we talked about it, she just said it was harmless flirting.

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Dude, you should run the other way. A relationship that's that long means there is a serious connection between them, if they are fucked, it will end on it's own. Not to mention if you would like your teeth to remain in your head you'd best fuck off, a jealous boyfriend is the most dangerous creature in the world and I've seen many guys getting put in the hospital for pulling this shit. In fact a bunch of people were killed in murder suicide by a jealous boyfriend in BC. Have some respect for yourself and tell this chick to fuck off, and don't look back unless she calls you when she's single. If you choose to pursue her still, I and most men will have no sympathy when a crew of contracted meatballs stomps your skull so bad you have a speech impediment the rest of your life. Plus what kind of chick you think she'l turn out to be if you do manage to seduce her?

She's trying to play you. You can either A) take the interactions for what they are and use it as an ego boost B) keep your distance or C) don't let that little line deter you. In my opinion, a girl doesn't reject a guy until she does it physically or simply says, "N-O."

Hey Pinto,

Everyone makes subconscious calculations to decide to associate with another person or avoid them. She has chosen to align with you. That's a fact.

Now where it goes from here is up to you.

People love to create 'work husbands and wives' but the holding of the hands is beyond that threshold. If her bf knows anyone at your work this huge sign she is ready to move on

Like the other members said she could just be making sure she still got it. But again holding of the hands goes beyond it.

Another option is she is afraid of being alone. A huge sign of that is the 5yr boyfriend. She could be making sure if she breaks up with her current bf that she won't have any time alone, and make a clean switch.

So what do to from here?


proceed as normal work game and if she says she has a boyfriend just say "we will be discreet"

Good luck!

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