Terrible last comment, I hope he was joking. As for the first reply, you can't plan situations with women. You can have ideas of what to do but the most important thing is to be able to go with the moment and react to what's going on, and most importantly, sense her mood.
If you get hung up on one goal it will show and affect your ability to go with the flow and really connect.
ONE HUNDRED PERCENT, you have to make your intentions clear to the , WITHOUT saying the words. Don't try to trick them in to anything. A real man doesn't need to. You can take my word for this, I've tried it both ways. But saying the words directly kills the mood. It's all about mystery and uncertainty. Also if you're only alluding it gives the opportunity for her/them to express a disinterest without being too direct and rude, and for you to say you were just kidding. It's a language of its own.
And you have to be prepared for them to be not into it. Sometimes they need coaxing to do things for the first time but if you're confident AND considerate and let them move at their own pace, that's your best chance.
And the part about being certain of the virgin absolutely not wanting to lose her virginity in a threesome? That's bullshit
