So i was being a photographer at a club. This is great for opening, although after that idk it was hard for me. but this one girl kept following me around was all over me and i got her number. at the end of the night she kissed be and said bye. i texted her a few days later and had a boring ass convo. but that was like a week and a half ago. any ideas to get a date and what to do on that date?

1.5 weeks might wipe out attraction without investment. Call her and talk about what you talked that day. Get a date.

alright i'll text her today and see what happens. but this isnt what i really needed advice on. this was just a side thing haha.

so i said how are you and she said she'd been better. so i was like cheer up and then she said she would. then i asked what city she was from cuz i didnt know. and i told her mine. then she said we live pretty close. what should i say to that?

Me: Hey how are you?
Her: Hey I've been better, how about you?
Me: You seemed happy when i met you?
Her: Yea that was then
Me: Mmmm well smile. be happy todays a beautiful day
Her: yea if only you knew you'd understand. But i'll try my best to smile & it is a beautiful day.
(i was gonna ask if she wanted to talk about it but decided not to. Good choice?)
Me: So where you from any way
Her: [city near me] & you?
Me: live in [my city] kick it in [my old city]
Her: not that far from [her city]
Me: yeah not that bad.
Her: its not at all
[2hr pause]
Me: so what are you up to today?
Her: working
Me: thats terrible. i'm sorry. i hope they let you out soon.
Her: I know it is and i'm not out until 530
Me: well at least you have your night
Her: Truee
Me: Doing anything amazing tonight
Her: think a party
Me: sound fun
Her: ehhhhh
Me: you know what would be better though
Her: What?
Me: Getting tea and crumpets with a super awesome guy.
Her: Who's this super awesome guy
Me: idk who do you think is super awesome?
Her: idk u tell me
Me: if you need help, i am personally pretty fuckin awesome!
Her: okay so when are we gonna hangout then since ur so fuckin awesome
Me: why thank you! idk tonight. fuck it. you dont even wanna go to that party anyway.
Her: aha lemme see awesome person

Rate me. i had longer pauses for my texts. whats good. whats bad. what is she "saying" to me? and how?

sorry for the late reply, was busy with stuff


the longer pauses were pretty man
she seems interested in the beginning and losing interest in the end, but it might not be your fault because she might have things going.

next time you can say that you're also going out to a party. make her feel like shes missing out all the fun not being with you.

you do ask a lot of questions. next time instead of asking, give a statement.

ie.
what are you going to do tonight?
to
my friend organized a great party and me and my friends are jut gonna have fun tonight.


her replies at the end might mean two things.

1. shes done what she had to do at the moment and feels happy. she might finished the laundry or something which have nothing to do with you.

2.she is sincerely interested in you.

keep the message logs coming. im sure there are progress in the two days.
also remember to embed dhv spikes. good luck man [/quote]

2 days later (last night) i text her:
Me: Was that party crackin?
HB8: It wasnt at all I just got drunk and that was the party for me
Me: Meet any super awesome guys that you could have tea and crumpets with?
HB8: Yea but u never txt me back so I can never have tea with this awesome guy
Me: Dont forget the crumpets
HB8: Oh yeah and the crumpets
Me: Well i figured you would text me hehe
HB8: aha funny
Me: Well lets go tonight.
HB8: I had a rough week I'm looking to go out for awhile [i figured she meant to say not looking but i came back with...]
Me: Come pick me up then. I'm on my skateboard right now. [DHV?]
HB8: I meant to say not looking to go out.. I'm sorry

Skateboarding is a dhv. It show that you,re outgoing. Except if you,re forty (it's not that a forty years old guy can't go skateboarding' it's just weired.)

I think she might just have a rough week. Don't worry about it. If a girl replies you, it means she's interested in you. She won't bother to reply if she's not. I'm sure things will work out!