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Alright I've taken this girl out for the second time, we had dinner last night, built good rapport and comfort, things were going well and when the check came she grabbed and paid for it! I drive her home at the end of the night and walk her to the door, we k-closed. She was into kissing me because everytime I pulled back a lil she'd dive right back in. I broke it off and told her goodnight. Texted her this morning and she has not responded.
She's really good gf material, I don't want to lose this one. I was thinking maybe call her up tonight if she doesn't text back? Thoughts?
An independent woman will go for the check at the end of the meal out of politeness more than anything. It's your job to step up and insist that you pay though. You really should have caught the check in my honest opinion.
Continuing on, that's awesome that you kissed her at her door. If she was so into it and wasn't trying to let you go then why did you break it off? Why didn't you let things run their natural course and see where it ended up? You're at her door and she's really really into kissing you....red flags, bells, and alarms should be going off in your head!!! Not to mention your pants.
Dude, next time go with the flow a little more.
If you don't hear back from her soon via text I would definitely call her but don't be too clingy and call too often. Plan on leaving her a voicemail as she will likely want to hear what you have to say. Before you call her have a plan in mind of your next date, don't go into this without a plan. If you have to leave a voicemail tell her you were thinking about going to this great place and wanted to take her with you.
Best of Luck,
Jon
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