I managed to take out my PT I made plans with her on saturday. But the day before (veterans day) I went out with some fellow warriors. She came out and met up, the craziest night I've ever had. Free drinks, chicks swarming me and I ended up making out with her quite a bit. I made sure to give her, and her friends some of the free drinks I was getting.

She was hungover the next day and we still decided to go out. I went low key as I also felt like shit, we went to a bar for dinner. She seemed to have a decent time (while still being sick) and I took her home. Kiss goodnight. She mentioned that she was into sports so I thought a pro game this week would be a good next date. I texted her the next day asking her if she ever gets off before 8:00pm as most games start at 7:30. Here is the actual texts.

Me: You ever get off work before 8?

Her: No not really

Me: Are you free tuesday night for some unbowleaveable bowling

Her: Lol no bc o work the next am early

Me: What day can you, and I can't guarantee it to be unbowleavable now. Might be bowlerific though.

Her: Lol idk just found out I have to get my nasm before I can work at Gold Gym and have a few weeks to get it so I have to be studying for that

I left it at that as I did I few things I shouldn't have.
- Asked for a date, I should've just given two yes options.
- Texted her first.

However the night of the date she told me to do something with her Wednesday. She also friend requested me the day after the date. I saw her yesterday at the gym and didn't say anything to her, just gave her a smile and continued to workout. She was with a client at the time and I know she doesn't want her boss to find out. I also don't want to come off as a needy douche.

Today I went to the gym, and we gave each other a few looks and smiled. As I was getting ready to leave she said something to me while I had my headphones on. I stopped and talked to her and mentioned that her text seemed like a big hint text. She said no and that she was really busy with this studying and how much it costs. She then said she needed to workout as she had an hour break inbetween her shit and asked to borrow a workout shirt, which I didn't have. I then mentioned how awesome my day at work was and mentioned the sports game. She wanted to know if I had a jersey for her to wear, which I joked about me not having. I then finished my workout, got dressed and headed for the door.

On the way out another trainer (male) started talking to me and we stopped at the trainers desk. She then came up to where I was standing and started talking to me again. I told her we were going out this weekend and that she could pick friday or saturday. She said saturday and our plan was to goto the game. I tell her I'm leaving and she replies with I'll see you tomorrow. I called her a stalker (I go everyday) but I figured a little humor wouldn't hurt. I walk out.

As I'm driving home I get a text saying "I can't go sat lol." Which I haven't replied to.

I feel like the signs say, move on and that she isn't interested. But for one, I'd love to smash and two, maybe you guys have some advice.

Marteen.

Sounds like an awesome night, man.

Was this a PUA Personal Trainer?

Also, how did you get all of these women making out with you?

The night was awesome, my two friends and I wore our dress uniforms out. It was like peacocking to the extreme (veterans day, dress uniform, shinny medals, good attitude) I don't really remember too much as I was really drunk. But most of the women approached me as there was a lot of attention around us.

I'm just confused on why this chick is blowing me off, any pointers on how to proceed?

Ooooooh! You're in the military!!!

Yeah, that explains why the night was so awesome. Women love military guys! How hot were they?

Wish I was in the military, so I'd have that kind of attention from women.

You've got quite the quandary with this lady of yours. Maybe some of the other guys here could help you out.