Hi guys,

I've been seeing this HB at uni for a bit now. We've bumped into each other on two nights out and both nights had sex. Her BF isn't a problem as he is at a different uni.
Problem is I was terrible at sex both nights and I've now decided to read up on techniques to improve that side (let me know if you have any good resources for that).

I just don't know how to get her to be my long term F buddy.

Today I thought I'll atleast try and txt her which I rarely do:

Me: Stop that
HB: What?
Me: Thinking about me and smiling Bet ur doing it now.
HB: Oi cheeky, but strangely accurate you owe me a hoodie

(I borrowed her hoodie as one night I had I was practically naked it her place and no clothes to wear back to mine - long story)

ME:You can come over one night and pick it up but don't get any ideas
HB: Will do..pick it up that is definitely not the other
HB: And I never told you to stop it too, that thing that I can't put my finger on.

so what should I do, just freeze out on her?

Also how do I make sure she becomes my long term F buddy. I'm thinking maybe when she comes over to take her hoodie I can kino escelate and have sex but really make sure she has a great time with me.
Any ideas on how to improve my sex techniques?? (I'm hoping asking for sex tips isn't forbidden in this forum, if it is I beg ur pardon)