So it's been awhile since I've posted about this girl and a lot has happened. I didn't really have time to post before but I'll give a quick synopsis.

I have a class with Korean Girl and different girl. We'll call her Athletic Girl. She and Korean Girl have another class together and that's how they know each other. I became friends with Athletic Girl and she introduced me to Korean Girl. That's how me and Korean Girl know each other.

Sometime ago, I asked Korean Girl out to coffee and we went. It went well. Then we went to a party and I swear I was getting IOIs all over the place. Leg touching, standing closer to me, laughing at my nonsensical stuff. Even at one point when I squeezed her leg, just above the knee cap, she took my drink of out my hand, drank it all, then handed the glass back and said that's what you get and smiled and left. It was at this party that Athletic Girl suggested we go see Paranormal Activity 3 opening night.


Day 2
Now, I'm not a fan of scary movies. Actually, I hate them. I get scared easily and have nightmares. I really shouldn't have gone. So many things went wrong. So at first I didn't want to go. But then Korean Girl was like no, you should go! Alright so I went. I met up with them at a fast food restaurant. There was four of us. Me, Athletic Girl, Korean Girl and Korean Girl's roommate. Athletic Girl still had to go pick up a friend so we split up. Somehow I got Korean Girl alone with me. This part was good. We arrived at the theater and in the car we talked about shooting games. Then we talked about the arcade games with the guns like Resident Evil, Time Crisis or House of Dead. And she said she played one of those. So when we got to the theater we went inside and played House of Dead.

=First part of bad things= I died within like a minute and a half. She was doing way better than me. So it's kind of like during a zombie apocalypse, I can't protect her. Awkward.

=Second part of bad things= When we finished we went outside and I tried to do the handshake kino escalation. In video by Lovedrop and Mystery, the handshake is supposed to go 'here's the San Diego handshake', then I do like a simple bump, then it goes 'here's the LA handshake' and it gets a little more complex and eventually this continues to where I do something random and weird and she then asks what was that? to which I reply I don't know something I made up and she's supposed to laugh. What ACTUALLY happened was that I go 'here's the San Diego handshake' and she immediately goes 'oh my roommate is from San Diego, I'm going to ask her if this is real!' And I'm like 'no no I just made this up!' (She even calls me out on it the next time we hang out. She goes 'I asked my roommate and she said there's nothing like this') And then when I got to the end and she goes 'what was that?' I go 'I don't know I made that.' She went 'That was stupid.'

=Third part of bad things= So after that I try to do the thumb wrestling game. I hold my right hand out and I go 'Give me your hand' And she puts her hand in my hand. Then we lock into a thumb wrestling and it would go. Except, she pins me within a second. To which I respond by using my other hand to unpin and she pulls away laughing and I just stare out, mouth open in disbelief.

=Fourth part of bad things= Scary movie right? At the scenes where it was like a build up to the scary parts, I leaned over and literally said "omg, hold my hand!" To which she either ignored me or didn't hear me. I don't know what I was going for when I said this to her.

=Fifth part of bad things= End of the movie, it's time to go home. Athletic Girl lives up North as does Korean Girl and her roommate. So it makes sense for them four to go together. Except then Athletic Girl goes 'will you be okay driving alone?' To which I reply no and end up driving Korean Girl and her Roommate home. Four things wrong with this. A. It shows I'm a sissy. B. I waste gas by going wrong direction. C. Her roommate is in the car with us so it's not like we're alone. D. I lose value because I'm a taxi driver.

I go home and I'm in regret for going and I wonder how do I salvage this. To which I decide to do a freeze out and not message her or anything. The next day she texts me. She invites me to dinner the following day.


Day 3
I pick up and we go to a pho place. We talk and occasionally I get her to laugh like really laugh uncontrollably. Then we got back to her place to watch a movie. It started out with her sitting one seat away. Then I said come sit nearby me. So she did and I put my arm around her. After about 10 minutes she got up and went to go pee. But she didn't come back to sit next to me. I think at this point I should've just done a freeze out. But I didn't and I moved over to her. (Giving power, bad) And stupid me, I don't know why I said this. There should never be a point where I have to ask this. "Do you like me?" To which she replied "I like you as a friend." To which I should've just left as soon as the movie was over but instead it kept going.

I figure we could go bowling. But it's 10pm and the bowling starts at 9pm and midnight. And we didn't want to wait until midnight. So we decide on looking for pool. All the places I knew of that had pool were full or had a dress code.

But yah, I think I'm done with this girl. As much as I like this girl and this is the furthest I've gotten. Like 2nd date. 3rd date. I'm just analyzing things I could have done differently or things I did wrong.

Thoughts anyone? I'll post more if anything more comes up. But for now, I think she's just going to be a friend.

I'm korean so I know a lil somethin some'n, when it comes to korean girls. One, they like strong men, USUALLY! You know the parts you fucked up, but I also see that when you started losing the champ feeling and got into chump zone, you didn't mention any efforts on kino. And she decided in that movie theater you're a chump. It shouldn't of mattered if you lost in those games or not, and the SD handshake was a serious shit test, you lost your cool. Why does it matter if its real or not, the point was to have fun and you gave her control at that point. Freeze was good, but when she was sitting next to you watching the movie before going to the restroom did you escalate kino?

BTW, can you rate her? Just makes it easier for the imagination.

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Oh sorry, yah I did a lot of kino on the coffee date. Like I would put the back of my hand on her shoulder and point to something. Or to get her attention to look at chips when we were in the store. Or even at the party, like while I was talking to someone else and my arms would move. I would brush up against her on purpose. I would hold it there for a second. Then I would continue waving my arms as if talking normally.

Yah... I think that was another mistake I made. I didn't escalate kino on that date. Or at least not as much as I did on the first date. I don't remember if I even did any kino escalation. That was bad. I see what you're saying. I should kino escalation on every date.

She's about a 7-8.

I guess something I'm wondering about is how did I get put into the friend zone? Where did I go wrong? I thought I was doing well. Is it possible to get out?

Maybe I made the mistake of thinking I could go into this and end with a f-close.

So now that all of this has happened and I'm seeing her again in class. We have talked a few times. I feel like we're friends still. The thing is I want to ask her what went wrong and is there a way to salvage it? I was so sure that she liked me but then I think I made the wrong move by coming on too strong. Is it a bad idea to want to talk to her about it? I feel like it is but I also want to learn from it.

Question is should I ask her about what went wrong or not?

No!!!
Don't ask her what went wrong, you never do that to a girl! That would be extremely AFC!!!
I think what you should do is a freeze out, stop talking to her for a few days/weeks and start flirting with other girls at school and make sure that she sees you.

If she likes you, she should come to you.
If not, you should probably move on to another girl.

That's a good point. You're right. Good call.

You came out as a huge sissy, and no matter how the rest of your game is... if you are a sissy you'll never ever close.
One episode of Non-Alpha behavior ruins everything!
Be Alpha move along or keep her as a friend(I reccomend the first one since she knows you like her).

So it's been awhile since I've posted anything about her. I basically moved on to other girls but I still see her. However, today I had a class cancelled and I knew she lived close. So I decided to text her and ask if I could come over. She said yes. So I went over and hung out. We made pasta and ate it. Then her friend calls and asks to go shopping. She says yes, while I'm still there. She tells me about the phone call and that she's outside. I tell her "uhh... so you're kicking me out?" She says yes. I tell her "are you serious? I'm actually upset." She looks at me "really? why?" I grab my stuff and walk out. My initial thought was. That's BS. A. I don't want to look like an AFC shopping with her because I don't enjoy shopping. B. I wasn't invited

I go back to school and wander around the library. I find a friend. I tell her what happened. She's got a kind of hard personality. No bullshit. She tells me "maybe you're reading too much into these girls. If she liked you then maybe it would be different. But you guys are just friends. It's not like she has to stay with you. You went over, ate and then it was time for her to go shopping. You had to leave."

What do you guys think? Do I have a right to be angry? Or should I just let it go? Right now I'm thinking about just letting it go. Playing it cool. I'm seeing her again in class in 15min. The whole food/shopping thing happened maybe 40min ago. Thoughts?

Oh also, she texted me. Don't be mad. I forgot the plan with her..