I recently met a Japanese girl at a local student bar, we seemed to click pretty well. I added her on facebook and invited her for a coffee to starbucks. We met up and to me the date seemed to go pretty well, we exchanged phone numbers etc. Around 2 days later i messaged her on facebook asking her if she was interested in another date, to which she did not reply. The following day I text messaged her with the same kind of question....no reply. Now im becoming insecure with regards to what I did/said on the date that put her off that I am unaware of, or am I over reacting? Any advice how I should deal with this

Let her breathe, man. I'd wait a few days then send her a text that would have nothing to do with the previous times she'd talked to me.

She might be busy so don't smother her.

Btw, asking her if she's interested in another date is not what most PUAs would recommend... I suggest next time TELLING her (not in a mean way) to go on a date with you. She expects you to already know whether or not she's interested.

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