so i met this chick at my work and we have talked via text since sunday. she was very comfortable around me when we met up last night. we decided to go get a drink at a local bar and i gamed her up a bit but like i said she was very comfortable. she kept laying the IOIs on thick so i picked up a bottle of wine and we went back to the house. we kept getting close and being very touchy. i had her sitting in my lap while she showed me videos on the internet. it was good fun and i was feeling quite confident so i kissed her after saying something about being distracted by her lips. she ate it up and loved it we were on the bed in seconds making out rubbing all over each other. i thought it was a done deal and that i would for sure get to the f-close. but then she threw in some LMR and i downplayed it. it threw us off track a bit but we got back on track right away. i went at it again and she tossed up some more LMR. we did this like 4-6 times and then she just wanted to talk and cuddle. i was prepared for this and did a very light freeze out after obliging her. we were up all night fooling around but i never got a full f-close that i wanted she kept saying things like "maybe next time" or "i dont want to give it away to fast" i dismissed everything every time perfectly but then as soon as it got aggressive again she would back off until the sun finally started to peek its evil head threw my window and she said she had to go for school. so i have realized now that i just was to aggressive and i didnt make her comfortable enough and i also failed to make her want me by setting limits for her. but my question is what techniques should i use to effectively do this? i am definitely getting another chance with her. she was super reluctant to leave and she made sure we would get to hang again. i just want the full close and i want to make sure im prepared to dismiss her objections. at one point she even said she knew she had no legitimate objections, she was just worried that i would take advantage of her and not call again because i would have gotten everything i wanted; to this i said that she had a whole personality i still wanted to get to know and that i wasnt like most guys whho just wanted to sleep with her, i just enjoyed exploring our desires.. hoping for some pointers to help calibrate before round 2. thanks.

btw. im not just trying to sleep with her either. i want to keep her around but i definitely need to make sure the sex is right first.

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