If you never had anal sex, let me bring you into the darkness. It's like a box of chocolates, you never know what brown eye your gunna get.

Every girl thinks about it differently when your in the moment, but 99% say they are against it when their clothes are on.

Tips for the brown

1. Just go for it. Most girls will say "wrong hole" or tell you to stop. But some are cool with it and problem solved. Your now a dark knight...

I'll add more later...

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luke, I would say stop with the teasing but that would be homo considering the context

Ok I'm back...

I just want to add that don't be surprised if things get dirty. It's all part if the act.


Anyway,

2. If she says no after you you tried its no big deal. No = not yet. So go back to vaginal sex and try again in a little bit.

3. Get a finger in there. If you can get a finger in, it builds her comfort levels. Also it shows that it isn't a oneway street back there.

4. Persistence. If you are tryin to get a fuck buddy or girl friend to do it, then persistence usually works. Just keep going for it. If they ask when you will stop trying, you tell them once you get it.

How it feels;

I've done it with lube and without lube. I've done it with a condom and without. Obviously with lube is the best. For your first time, use a condom.

Anyway, it feels like a small vagina but not as wet. The girl can't hump the same way as with her vag. But it is something I suggest everyone at least try.

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If you're going to attempt anal, then I strongly suggest you educate yourself on how to do it properly first.

If you do anal right, then it should never hurt. You have to take it very slowly, especially if it is her first time. ALWAYS use lube. Start with one finger and just press it against her asshole to get her ass used to something getting ready to enter it. Then, slowly insert the tip of your finger. Let her get used to the tip being in there, before you try to push in any further. Then try to go in up to your first knuckle...

There is a really good video guide to anal sex. Just do a google search for "Expert Guide To Anal Sex." It explains everything perfectly. It's basically a porn that explains anal sex, so don't watch it at work