Hey all.
- I've met this girl trough my social circle and 1st day we met we really had a great conversation. No matter what was happening around, and even if I was giving attention to the other people, she always re-started conversation. This lasted more than 1h.
Funny thing, she was at my side in under a strange light and she looked quite fat and short, but since she was interesting to talk to I kept talking to her. Until she moved across from me, then, damn, she was really cute, an 8.
Well, because of that, I didn't put any game going, since after that the party disbanded and only we and 2 other girls stayed, I left with a smile.

- I got a common female friend to invite her to go out casually another time 2 weeks later. She came, she kept coming to me to talk during all night and kept looking at me and smiling when she was away.
So, I covered the Attraction and Qualification and Confort but didn't get any Kino going (I'm bad at that when I'm into the girl ... must work on this). Night ended with we running to pick separate trains so I didn't ask her number.

- Well, 3rd time out. I went to this concert and didn't even knew she was coming. She arrived late and immediately came to stay next to me. We talked a bit more Confort. After, I took the group to a bar near the place and get everyone to join ... bad idea, her ex was there, worst, she knew he was there or she told him she would be there.

I kept my cool - I'm good at that and she never mentioned it was her ex anyway - but disqualified the guy a bit when our common friend presented us 2. Besides, the guy was quite short and fat ... I just don't understand certain stuff.
Some girls at the bar started hitting on me out of nowhere and I'm pretty sure she saw it.

I went around a bit and then took 2 female friends home. She said the guy was giving her a lift home - yeah, ok. And she kept looking at me while she was saying goodbye to the group and in the end: "So, we see each other again, do you have email or FB (she already aded me in FB BTW)?" Now, I'm not dumb, she is into me, but she was also trying to make the guy that was standing next to there jealous. But, I didn't care and just said: "give me your phone number and I'll ask you out one of these days".

She joked a bit under what name to put me - Callback humour - and I left with the 2 other girls.

BTW: According to my common friend, the guy is an asshole and treats her badly.

Now, I like this girl. Specially because I liked her b4 I saw she was so damn cute.
I'm wondering how to take this. Long Fuse SMSs? Wait for another opportunity to go out together? Use FB instead of SMS? Wait for the relationship to inevitably break again ... which may take months?

Yes, I do have other stuff going on, but well, we must establish priorities in life, and she is the feminine priority right now

I see the original post was too big now that I see the other posts.
So, I'll make a resume:

- 1st night: Met a girl trough social circle. She was into me. I didn't play game for technical reasons. Didn't get her number.
- 2nd night: Got a common friend to arranje a night out with her in the group. Talked the all night. She kept giving strong signs she was into me. For technical reasons again, didn't get her phone.
- 3rd night: Met her by accident - I think - in a concert when I was with a common friend. She arrived late and came next to me the all time.
- Later the same night in a bar, her ex was there. She stayed with the guy when I left, but asked for my contact first - she asked email, FB - I told her - without shame - to give me her phone so I can ask her out.

How to proceed?
- Long fuse SMS way?
- Wait for chance and us to meet again trough social circle and her ex don't show up?
- Use FB instead of SMS?
- Give time out for her to get over the guy?
- Other way?

i say go for it , if its her ex then call her and get a day 2!

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